Jon, I was not as nearly as young as your birthmom when I gave birth and surrendered my firstborn. (I was 18). The scourge back then was "illegitimacy" and if you truly loved your child, you would give it to a "good" family to love. Let me assure you, that though it may appear that a
birthmother has "moved on" with her life...I don't believe that any ever, ever forget...both the love ...