Don't have much to add really, other than be guided by your feelings, and I'm glad you feel able to be comforted by people you have on the other side of life, as it were. FWIW me and dh went through 5 years of
frantic trying to concieve, and on the occasion the fertility treatment worked, I 'knew' I was pg before we even got out of the hospital car park! Dh thought I was going daft ...