As a mom of an almost 2-year-old, ditto! For her
1st birthday party, even though we tried to keep it small (just immediate family and close friends), it still came out to over 150 people. My daughter got presents and cash, we had no problem with that. In fact, we were grateful. You can never start a bank account (or college funds) too early. If you wanna give them an actual gift... get...