Thread: pity party for me plz!! - TTC-Trying to Conceive-Just-Starting-Out at WebMD

Replying to: pity party for me plz!! thank you so much ladies! yes i plan to sit down and have a talk with him . i'll see when he's in a excellent mood, and then do it . that way he'll be more receptive to what i'm saying. and i will not tell him 'yippeee! i'm ovulating let's do it!'. i'll just pounce. thank you once again for listening to my vent!

Replying to: pity party for me plz!! Im so sorry.. ((Hugs)) I feel like I am a teacher too while I'm fertile.... What is the deal with saliva?? Why is it bad??

Replying to: pity party for me plz!! I'm sorry. DH was like that at first, but I told him that since it is taking us so much longer he needs to know all the rules just like I do. So we sat down after AF started and I gave him a list that I had written out that explained all about O'ing and TTC and all the do's and don'ts. I think giving him a list worked better than telling him for some reason. So now he knows what...

Replying to: pity party for me plz!! Don't feel bad. I'm guilty of it too. I refuse to be on top during my fertile period and I've had to remind DH of it before. He wasn't exactly happy.

Replying to: pity party for me plz!! Yeah, when DH and I first started TTC, I was a little bossy myself. HE got really frustrated, so now I just keep him in the dark as much as possible. You know, kind of take charge and pull him on top (TMI, sorry)? He thinks I'm really getting in to it, but I'm really just trying to get him where he needs to be. The whole saliva thing, I explained to him casualy when were in the car or something....

Replying to: pity party for me plz!! I am having the EXACT same problem. DH couldn't DTD on O day this month....I was all PO'd. But after talking to him about it he just wasn't turned on about all the fertility talk and having to be set to my ovulation schedule. But we sat down and I told him all the stuff we have to do to have better odds of getting KU...and after explaining everything he still wasn't happy happy go...

Replying to: pity party for me plz!! Aww sorry!! was last night your O day? My husband hates the no saliva thing,lol. I also told him before DTD what was best for TTC but I have had to remind him subtly while BD'ing once or twice as well. I think you're right about just going with the flow, or~ just try to do it 'by the rules' without telling him,lol just guide him to what position you want or tell him missionary feels...