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Thread: opting out

Started 3 weeks, 4 days ago by tconi
Last week the wife of a childhood friend of mine opted out of her struggle with depression. I guess she is at peace now. She leaves behind my friend and two phenomenally great, young (under 8) daughters. While I understand suicide from the perspective of I don't really want to be dead, but i certainly do NOT want to be alive any more It is hard for me to understand leaving my kids in...
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Hardboiled replied 3 weeks, 4 days ago
I think suicide defies logic. People are in terrible pain and they think suicide is the only way out. The pain is so great they don't think about family members.

Myownigloo replied 3 weeks, 4 days ago
It is hard for me to understand leaving my kids in the fall out. I can say with surety that they are the only reason I haven't done this myself at different times. Before my own suicide attempt lo, these many moons ago (college age), I's always assumed that all I had to do to keep from committing suicide was to think of my mother and what it would do to her. When the time came, I ...

snippee replied 3 weeks, 4 days ago
I don't know what to say to you , t, so i'm really not any help on what to say to your friend's family. I am really glad, though, that you have an empathetic mindset for both sides about this and aren't all blame-the-deceased-for-being-selfish like so many people in this world are.

Minxie replied 3 weeks, 4 days ago
Wow, this month has really been rough; my friend's mother passed away today. I am very sorry for your loss and hope your friend is able to help his daughters and himself. Perhaps a copy of the book you mentioned on St. B's thread would help; he probably isn't explaining it was a suicide so a book gently explaining death would likely be welcome. Minxie

PipneyJane replied 3 weeks, 4 days ago
((((((((((Tconi))))))))) Sometimes there is no explanation that others can rationalize. - Pam

ishtarastarte replied 3 weeks, 2 days ago
I can say with surety that they are the only reason I haven't done this myself at different times. Me, too. I'm so sorry for your friend's family. Ishtar

tconi replied 3 weeks, 2 days ago
there is no turning back short of intervention. It's why no suicide threat should be ignored. sadly - they thought they had intervened. She had tried pills last Wednesday and was hospitalized in the psych ward of their local hospital. She somehow (and how, I do not know) managed to complete her task sometime between Friday Night & Saturday morning. they thought she would be OK ...

Myownigloo replied 3 weeks, 1 day ago
sadly - they thought they had intervened. She had tried pills last Wednesday and was hospitalized in the psych ward of their local hospital. She somehow (and how, I do not know) managed to complete her task sometime between Friday Night & Saturday morning. So sorry, tconi. MOI

 

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tconi
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opting out
Published (2009-11-11 20:19:00)
there is no turning back short of intervention. It's why no suicide threat should be ignored. sadly - they thought they had intervened. She had tried pills last Wednesday and was hospitalized in the psych ward of their local hospital. She somehow (and how, I do not know) managed to complete her task sometime between Friday Night & Saturday morning. they thought she would be OK there, or at least protected. peace & :-/ t
Myownigloo
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opting out
Published (2009-11-12 12:38:00)
sadly - they thought they had intervened. She had tried pills last Wednesday and was hospitalized in the psych ward of their local hospital. She somehow (and how, I do not know) managed to complete her task sometime between Friday Night & Saturday morning. So sorry, tconi. MOI
Hardboiled
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opting out
Published (2009-11-09 14:55:00)
I think suicide defies logic. People are in terrible pain and they think suicide is the only way out. The pain is so great they don't think about family members.
snippee
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user's latest post:
opting out
Published (2009-11-09 15:49:00)
I don't know what to say to you , t, so i'm really not any help on what to say to your friend's family. I am really glad, though, that you have an empathetic mindset for both sides about this and aren't all blame-the-deceased-for-being-selfish like so many people in this world are.
Minxie
1
user's latest post:
opting out
Published (2009-11-09 23:07:00)
Wow, this month has really been rough; my friend's mother passed away today. I am very sorry for your loss and hope your friend is able to help his daughters and himself. Perhaps a copy of the book you mentioned on St. B's thread would help; he probably isn't explaining it was a suicide so a book gently explaining death would likely be welcome. Minxie
PipneyJane
1
user's latest post:
opting out
Published (2009-11-10 07:43:00)
((((((((((Tconi))))))))) Sometimes there is no explanation that others can rationalize. - Pam
ishtarastarte
1
user's latest post:
opting out
Published (2009-11-11 18:53:00)
I can say with surety that they are the only reason I haven't done this myself at different times. Me, too. I'm so sorry for your friend's family. Ishtar

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