Thread: one-sided relationship and friend's manipulation?

I talked to my therapist and he told me that if I continued to talk to my "friend," he wouldn't even work with me anymore. He has "stopped by" my house more than once, uninvited. One time, he came by and saw my friend's car here and he assumed it was my boyfriend's car (it wasn't) and he told me he pee'd in my yard because he had to go really bad but he didn't want to come...

Wel, this is not totally clear to me, but... Yes, he probably sounded insensitive to your ears when he said those things, about not liking you so much as you seem to like him. But - I am assuming this - perhaps you sort of forced him to give you an answer. He was blunt, but honest. You didn't hear what you expected to hear, but that is reality. I could be wrong, but I find your bf to be a rather mature man. He is cool. He doesn't...