Thread: need help how to orgasm during sex? - Sexual Issues: Member to Member at WebMD

My boyfriend and I are currently having this problem. I am fine but he's not. I can't orgasm when he's inside me, yes it feels great but it just doesn't happen. If he plays with my clitoral area yes I do. Of course he asked if I had ever orgasm during sex with previous relationships, I told him the truth Yes i have. Now this is all he thinks about, I don't understand what's going on with me, I love him so much...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? Wow, sorry but he sounds like either an idiot or a a jerk or both! Even though I'm one woman that has orgasmed just from intercourse alone, it sure is a heck of a lot easier when I get clitoral stimulation beforehand. I figure it was just a fluke that I was able to orgasm when we went straight to intercourse without foreplay anyway. I'm not sure if the amount of lubrication I produce...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? OK, well he's really just kindof an idiot, then. Is he able to have an orgasm without any stimulation to his penis? I kindof doubt it. The clitoris is to the female what the penis is to the male; the primary part for sexual stimulation. Apparently he's had previous partners who could orgasm from intercourse alone without clitoral stimulation, but, as you know, most women can't. I...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? I'm inclined to agree with queston. Your BF should be concerned with your pleasure, not HOW it is derived. Just because he wants to have a magic wand doesn't mean that wish is going to come true. I haven't seen the statistic quoted in a while, but as I recall, something like 70% of women do not orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone.   That means that MOST women need...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? don't have an answer 4 u but i just want to say i understand what ur going thru (in a way) i have never ever actually had an orgasm during intercourse (or just by penetration u could say) only by my clitoris and sometimes I even have a hard time with that, not by myself but when I'm with my boyfriend I have a hard time   just wondering if maybe there was something that your...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? Sounds to me like your man is one of the many who think a womans vagina is the same as his penis only inverted. If he goes in and out you should have an orgasm just like him right? wrong. There are 5 different area's, if stimulated correctly, can cause an orgasm on a womans body not all of them work for everyone but maybe tell him this and see how many you can have. They are clitoral,...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? I suppose you could spend time trashing your boyfriend, or look for a solution. Regarding male egos: It should be remembered that women have egos also. Hence, breast augmentations are the number one plastic surgery procedure. A final thought on that; an ego is a normal thing that nobody enjoys having battered, and feeling inadequate. Now for a possible solution. The suggestion to try various...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? Yes, 70% of women need more than intercourse to orgasm. From what I got from the OP though, she's in the 30%. That's the crux of the issue - her current boyfriend feels that he should be able to get her off as easily as her past lovers have. It's a romantic notion, that she should be more satisfied with him in every way than she was with past lovers. Maybe the past lover used a...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? most woman can not climax with penetration. most women need clitoral simulation. maybe the other guy was a more bigger around or just moved different. maybe there was more foreplay before and your arousal was higher. dont ever feel bad for telling the truth. he needs to step up and be a man and be thankful that you are not a lier, which would only get you in trouble later on. dont stress over...

Replying to: need help how to orgasm during sex? I had the same problem, and my bf asked what he could do differently. For me, what gives me a orgasm during intercourse is if he stays at a steady pace and doesn't stop. Once he learned that, we were good.