Thread: married couple, bringing friend...

great suggestions, guys! i think i will ask if she would like to- with no pressure- hang out with presley for a couple of hours. they love eachother a lot, so she'll probably be into it! __________________ http://s228.photobucket.com/albums/ee219/xgirlherox/ My Previous Trips WDW 2006, WDW all-star music 2007, WDW all-star movies 2008

I too would "ask" your friend if she would be offended if you used the Neverland Club for your DD whilst you enjoy alone time. That way if he/she wanted to babysit he/she would offer and if not then know in advance that you want ALONE time and plan accordingly. Have fun! __________________ Kylee Merrily jingled by Sandra - Thank you! My Countdown Counting down to: Going west! Moving to Perth. We are Western Australians now!...

I agree, see if she'd be willing to spend some 1-on-1 time with your DD as a "favor" to you. Otherwise, sitting down to have a heart to heart about an evening out is probably the best way to go.

Buy her a spa treatment if she refuses I will go in her place

I would ask her to spend the afternoon & evening with your DD as a favor also. Plan a park, meal and maybe a special activity. I bet she would gladly agree. The two of them would have a great time & so would you two. I think the Neverland Club would be better for another time/trip.

I have been the "third party" on a trip with a married couple and I have enjoyed taking time to got to the pool or even setting up some spa time. If I don't do that then I take the time to get to the parks and take the photos that we missed while going from attraction to attraction. I also get to enjoy the shows which we always seem to miss during the busy days as a group.

I would just talk about it matter of factly. Like, "I can't wait to use the Neverland club so we can have some time alone in the parks, we've never been to the parks alone, looking forward to it so much." If you don't make a big deal of it, she won't think she has a reason to have her feelings hurt.

While the Neverland Club will be fun for your dd is there a reason you aren't having your friend watch her instead? That way your friend is helping you out taking care of your daughter and you get the night off. Otherwise if she is a good friend it seems like she should pretty easily understand that you need "alone" time with your spouse and she needs to find something else to do...for one night.

Quote: Originally Posted by tkm1005 While the Neverland Club will be fun for your dd is there a reason you aren't having your friend watch her instead? That way your friend is helping you out taking care of your daughter and you get the night off. I thought the same thing. Plan something for them to do together - like the Luau at Poly or a character dinner.