Thread: if she says there's no romantic feelings Free Dating, Singles and Personals

I've found that some women want to be "just friends", but only if you're still interested in them otherwise. When you show that you're not interested in them further than friends, yes, it pisses them off, and they disappear. I've also found that it takes a good while, for me at least, to shift my intentions, and essentially I have to let go of that person and do something else with my time and not let them be the...

Sounds like she wants to have her "cake and eat it too". Don't feed into her games!

Sounds like she wants to have her "cake and eat it too". Don't feed into her games! no, its brownies she's eating with him. OP, the only way to find out is to ignore her for awhile. See if she comes to another conclusion about you. You need to get out and date other people.

What do I do to get this girl in my arms and to win her over? Start dating other women. When she finds out or sees you with someone else, she'll either realize how much she wants you, or you'll enjoy being with someone else.

Ok she says there is no romantic feelings and she keeps saying she can't give me what I deserve. We have never kissed held hands or nothing. However like 2times a week she brings me lunch surprises me with Brownies. She smiles and teases me and text me no joke over 5000 times since Aug. 1st. What do I do to get this girl in my arms and to win her over? When we are out she will poke at me and she is always again smiling everywhere we go....

if she says there's no romantic feelings Then there aren't. Which part of NO has you stumped?

Why is it, a woman cannot do "friendly" gestures wihtout someone getting all wacked out? You cannot "make" anyone into your arms. Face it. She wants you as a friend and it sounds like she may be a "real" friend. Be appy with that. Even real friends are difficult to come by these days as well. She sounds happy; do not try to ruin it.

What do I do to get this girl in my arms and to win her over? You're in the dreaded friends zone. It's impossible to escape from it. You have to tell her that you can't see her anymore. And you have to stick to that.

Not going to happen.... sorry... enjoy the friendship or end it.

Sorry OP you are a friend and it isn't ever going to change. She has made that clear, she is treating you like a valued friend. I can feel your pain in the words you write, my advice is to break this off for a while, be upfront and honest with her. Tell her you care about her, you need some time and distance before you can be the friend she deserves. Since right now you are still struggling with all the romantic feelings. Take a step...