sounds like your oh has a fetish or two, best thing to do is confont him and just tell him you know what he's been up to and you want an explanation. you also need to decide whether or not you want to live with a man who lies or if/when its out in the open you can live with a man who has these fetishes - i know a lot of women who can and do happily but also some that can't its a personal choice....



