Thread: Would this be disrespectful to you?

Update - she walked. As expected, he is blown away and has no clue how this happened. He is completely broken. I actually feel for him to a degree, more so because he is clueless and doomed to experience this again. She did tell me she is conflicted about how she feels, though she wants it to be done. She is sad in that she doesn't want to seem like a snob, but she also can't help but feel she is above it all and isn't ashamed...

Quote: Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate We've all had something to say to him about it at one point or another. I really think he's just that dumb. She's more open minded than most women and he's taking it too far. I don't think he is doing it because he enjoys making her angry. Someone who does it on purpose knows it's wrong, at least. You can't fix stupid. I suspect that in the beginning of the...

Quote: Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate LOL...no doubt. I am pretty sure she'll be giving him a pink slip pretty soon. I give it a year, at the most. Still a year seems like a long time to spend with stupid, IMO. But no one can make that decision for her unfortunately.

Quote: Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate She won't chime in when he behaves like that, other than to point out how foolish he's behaving. She will make a comment about an attractive woman on her own. Oooo, gotcha. That's way annoying. I guess I say, look but don't touch. I'm not very jealous, but I can see how annoying that would be.

Maybe she should get makin on that keychain!

Phew. I posted a comment several pages ago but after subsequently ploughing through this whole thread again, what relevance do any of the ongoing responses have? This is not an issue which the OP has. It's an issue which the OP perceives is affecting the relationship between two of her friends and, to her only, is an "issue." The OP's girlfriend hasn't told the OP she has a problem with her boyfriend (unless I...

inappopriate i agree. but i also see the opposite, he has got a collar on and is laying under her chair.

I agree, he's a jerk. Hopefully, your friend will wake up and realize she can do better.

I am a guy, and this is my humble opinion.... that guy most likely does this same sort of behavior in the company of his male friends, or drinking buddies, also. This other group of his friends, lets call them his pre-relationship buddies. I would suspect that these buddies approve of his behavior, or he would not have this behavior. It would be most unlikely that any normal prior relationship with another woman would have green-lighted this...

He has No Class at all.