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Thread: Wondering if I should just leave? - Yahoo! Answers

Started 3 months, 2 weeks ago by sean h
I've been married almost three years now. I'm 28 and she's 22 and ever since we've been married I've felt uneasy about us. I feel like I'm doing most of the work... I've held down a job that I hated for 4 years so that we could pay bills while she was in school, but she feels her support on the financial end was optional. I've always gotten on her about spending and now both hers and my cards ...
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Jay G replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
You need to figure it out for urself asking Yahoo what they think doesnt matter it matters what u feel inside

fifthwhe... replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
It would appear that you have already made your decision. If you don't want to try to get into some sort of counseling then I would say call it quits now.

txjeepn replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
If you have to ask you already know the answer.

Christin W replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Well really sit down and calmly explain how you feel to her. If that doesn't help you out then yes leave for a while (tell her where you are going) and see if she changes her ways.

aint settlin' replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
if you are truly in a lose lose situation, id say yes, go ahead and get outta there... it will be hard, but if you are the only one worth a damn, yes ,leave and tell her to grow up !!! life happens !!! makes even the youngest of us grow up... yo uare not her dad, so she should do something if she wants your marriage to work kind of seems like you do not want things to work, so good luck to ...

Cracker Jack replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
She sounds like she's not mature enough for a marriage. I think you need to let this go.

Stylish Samantha replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Divorce may seem the easy way out at the time but believe me, it can get very very messy. See a marriage councellor to try and work things out. You married for better or worse, dont bail out before trying all you can to save your marriage first. Good luck.

Wisen Smart replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
You really sound serious about your situation. It is obvious your wife does not love you and its just using you to support her. This is very clear, but why you refuse to admit it is the question here. My advise is to look out for your future and work on your life because this woman is not going to be there with you anyway. Focus on doing major chances in your life to get you started ...

butterfly red replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
How much longer does she have of school. She needs to get funding if she isn't done. I would explain to her the real situation money and her lack of help in finance and in cleaning. She was very young when you married her. I would suggest counseling and go from there.

Diana C replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
You really need to talk to her about what you expect from her as a partner and as a wife. If she respects you she'll pull her own weight. There's an old saying "loves goes out the window when money's stops coming in through the door." It can really add a lot of stress to a marriage but you need to talk things out and try to explain why you're upset. Try to explain how you feel...maybe you feel...

 

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Christin W
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Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:36:00)
Well really sit down and calmly explain how you feel to her. If that doesn't help you out then yes leave for a while (tell her where you are going) and see if she changes her ways.
aint settlin'
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Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:37:00)
if you are truly in a lose lose situation, id say yes, go ahead and get outta there... it will be hard, but if you are the only one worth a damn, yes ,leave and tell her to grow up !!! life happens !!! makes even the youngest of us grow up... yo uare not her dad, so she should do something if she wants your marriage to work kind of seems like you do not want things to work, so good luck to you
Cracker Jack
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user's latest post:
Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:37:00)
She sounds like she's not mature enough for a marriage. I think you need to let this go.
Stylish Samantha
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user's latest post:
Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:37:00)
Divorce may seem the easy way out at the time but believe me, it can get very very messy. See a marriage councellor to try and work things out. You married for better or worse, dont bail out before trying all you can to save your marriage first. Good luck.
Wisen Smart
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Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:41:00)
You really sound serious about your situation. It is obvious your wife does not love you and its just using you to support her. This is very clear, but why you refuse to admit it is the question here. My advise is to look out for your future and work on your life because this woman is not going to be there with you anyway. Focus on doing major chances in your life to get you started in the right direction, thinking only of you: 1- Move to a...
butterfly red
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Published (2009-08-23 16:46:00)
How much longer does she have of school. She needs to get funding if she isn't done. I would explain to her the real situation money and her lack of help in finance and in cleaning. She was very young when you married her. I would suggest counseling and go from there.
Diana C
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user's latest post:
Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 17:42:00)
You really need to talk to her about what you expect from her as a partner and as a wife. If she respects you she'll pull her own weight. There's an old saying "loves goes out the window when money's stops coming in through the door." It can really add a lot of stress to a marriage but you need to talk things out and try to explain why you're upset. Try to explain how you feel...maybe you...
sean h
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Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:28:00)
I've been married almost three years now. I'm 28 and she's 22 and ever since we've been married I've felt uneasy about us. I feel like I'm doing most of the work... I've held down a job that I hated for 4 years so that we could pay bills while she was in school, but she feels her support on the financial end was optional. I've always gotten on her about spending and now...
Jay G
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Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:34:00)
You need to figure it out for urself asking Yahoo what they think doesnt matter it matters what u feel inside
fifthwhe...
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user's latest post:
Wondering if I should just...
Published (2009-08-23 16:36:00)
It would appear that you have already made your decision. If you don't want to try to get into some sort of counseling then I would say call it quits now.

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