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Thread: What's considered inappropriate when you're married?

Started 2 months ago by jess921
So I've been having a lengthy discussion with a friend of mine as to whether or not this interaction is "appropriate". Situation: Married man gives single woman his telephone number. Man proceeds to ask her to a get-together a few days later. Woman accepts. The man's wife is not in attendance. He admits to her he wishes he never got married but that things are 'okay' with his wife. It's to be ...
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littlechef73 replied 2 months ago
My rule of thumb is if my spouse doesn't like it, and I am doing something I would not do in front of him (hiding things from him and such), then it's inappropriate. In this situation, if the husband is doing this behind his wife's back and knows she wouldn't like it, it is inappropriate. If this were going on in my marriage, I'd consider it inappropriate. Back to top...

asia replied 2 months ago
Lies Married Men Tell: 1) my wife doesn’t understand me 2) my wife hates sex 3) my wife is "okay" with me having female friends 4) I just want to be friends Feel free to add more! Back to top

Acheron replied 2 months ago
littlechef73 wrote: My rule of thumb is if my spouse doesn't like it, and I am doing something I would not do in front of him (hiding things from him and such), then it's inappropriate. In this situation, if the husband is doing this behind his wife's back and knows she wouldn't like it, it is inappropriate. If this were going on in my marriage, I'd consider it ...

jess921 replied 2 months ago
Personally, I never bought the idea that two people of the opposite sex can be "just friends" without something happening in the end...especially when they're both young and attractive. Back to top

Sally replied 2 months ago
Acheron wrote: littlechef73 wrote: My rule of thumb is if my spouse doesn't like it, and I am doing something I would not do in front of him (hiding things from him and such), then it's inappropriate. In this situation, if the husband is doing this behind his wife's back and knows she wouldn't like it, it is inappropriate. If this were going ...

jess921 replied 2 months ago
Sally wrote: Acheron wrote: littlechef73 wrote: My rule of thumb is if my spouse doesn't like it, and I am doing something I would not do in front of him (hiding things from him and such), then it's inappropriate. In this situation, if the husband is doing this behind his wife's back and knows she wouldn't like it, it is ...

Sally replied 2 months ago
Take a poll of the men you know. Ask them how many times in their lives they have ever approached a woman without thinking "Can I hit it?" or some variation on that theme? Men marry because there is some bonus, like intelligence, money, cooking, etc, in addition to the promise of easy access to sex. (because we all know that no matter how many people talk of the sex drying up after ...

MPG replied 2 months ago
Anything you would not want done to you is inappropiate. Back to top

virginornot replied 2 months ago
Sally ( or Sarah ? ) you are both wrong and right at the same time You are right when you say that most men don't want to be "just a friend" and that men want sex. However,you are wrong about marriage thing. Men can fall in love too,and want to be faithful to just one woman. Just because men do want sex,and prefer sex over friendship,especially with attractive female,doesn't mean ...

Showgirly replied 2 months ago
This is good to know. So I guess the guy that I thought was a friend was really trying to tap my ass, huh? [quote="Sally"]Take a poll of the men you know. Ask them how many times in their lives they have ever approached a woman without thinking "Can I hit it?" or some variation on that theme? Men marry because there is some bonus, like intelligence, money, cooking, etc,...

 

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Maximus
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Published (2009-11-10 17:12:00)
couldn't agree more...... Maximus
jerseytorch
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Published (2009-11-10 13:55:00)
I couldn't agree more. Some people here think that the words "trust" and "control" are synonymous. They're not.
littlechef73
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Published (2009-11-08 12:42:00)
Do you take your wife with you on these outings with female friends? Has she met them? I seem to recall a New Years resolution to kiss 10 women this year. How close are you?
-DJ-
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Not was, is You are correct, my mind is made up, but I did not make it up, you did. Honestly, you remind me of a guy I saw on that show "Cops" the other day. He fell asleep at a red light and when the officer showed up there was a Bong pipe next to him on the seat. He said it was his brothers and they should just smash it and let him go. He said the same thing when the officer found a cocaine grinder, then a full bottle of...
ALadyLikeNoOther
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Quote: If you don't like certain women (like ALLNO) and think they're this, or that.....ignore them. But JR, its so much fun to dislike people on a message board that you don't really know! How else are people going to take out their frustrations and pent up anger? They got to have a target right? Back to top
JR
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Published (2009-11-08 12:40:00)
I need to go back and read the manual again, b/c I always thought my wife IS my family.
luv_not_hate
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Max, I am not overlooking her insecurities, just that your behavior is likely the contributor. Of course if she's just an insecure person, that's different, but from what you've told us about these "friends" I wouldn't blame her. She has EVERY right to be jealous, is my point. You are "dating" these women and "hanging" out with them, without even knowing them..... but to...
mtbgirl
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JR wrote: Greywulff wrote: If you have the perfect relationship and trust is strong and you have secret in counters with the opposite sex even if sex or sexual intent is not the the basis. Is this not inappropriate??????? YES OR NO There's the operative word. Secret. You don't have to have sex to have an inappropriate friendship/relationship. It becomes inappropriate if it's something that you keep secret from your spouse. I...
lawngnome
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Max, you aren't the big bad wolf, you are:
jess921
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Published (2009-11-03 22:03:00)
This thread is still going strong? Well, my instincts about this situation was correct as after she got back from the party he: A)Was dancing with everything that had a vagina. B)Called my friend numerous times while he was intoxicated begging for her to come and get him from his own house (while his wife was heard in the background) to spend the night at her apartment. C)Has been called a 'dog' by every female that knows him Not...

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