Thread: What would you have done?

I have unknowingly locked doors in my house. I didn't realize I had locked the door until later when I tried to get into the room. My hand pushed the center button in the knob. This is why I think it could have happened to you if that was all it took to lock the door. The guy may have been closing the door earlier because he didn't want people watching from outside the room or didn't want more people in the room. Did you close...

I agree with the previous poster. The mistake you made was letting it go too far, several times....when you first felt uncomfortable, IMMEDIATELY after the door was locked--but you did great in the end to get rid of the guy. I am also curious to know how your wife reacted? Did she know he was locking you out? Also, on behalf of all the great single guys out there, you don't have to give up all MFMs just because of one bad choice. After...

Quote: Originally Posted by graygo98 You did the right thing, but your timing was a bit off. Yes, you did the right thing but I would have knocked LOUDLY after 5 miutes not 30. Maybe even sooner!!!

I definately wouldn't judge all single guys on this one incident. I've seen similar & worse things happen with couples playing with couples. I'm assuming that since he had been closing the door earlier yet people came in anyway that the door did not lock automatically and therefore he DID know that the door locked behind you. That said, I have to agree with the earlier poster that as soon as you realized the door was...

Quote: The three of us are now involved, but he starts to pull the wife away from me into different positions so that she can't pay attention to me. He is aggressive but not overly rough. I went out of the room to get a bottle of water and the door locked behind me. Now they were the only two in the room. After about 30 minutes and no way to get back in there, I knocked loudly on the door and he opened it. I kicked him out and said party...

So the original question is "what would you have done?" Echoing the above in general, I wouldnt have allowed myself to get increasingly uncomfortable, then leave to get water, then wait 30 minutes after the door mysteriously locked. We can never know the actual dynamic since none of us were there, but if what you are describing was happening exactly as you explained it (the guy trying to sort of exclude you) I'd have...

Coming from a single guy, if I met a couple at a party like that, I wouldn't go into a room with them unless I knew what was expected of me and how everyone would be participating. I have no problem at all with the husband watching or participating, but I would never monopolize the wife or try to keep the husband out of things, especially since I was invited to share in the privilege of joining them. It was a bad move on his behalf, but...

Laura and I always believed swinging was for couples, that there was neither a place nor a need for singles. One cannot possibly know what emotions are involved when he is having sex with someone else's wife unless someone is fucking with his wife. The same thing goes for husbands. But to answer the issue here, for every horror story I've heard about couples, I've heard twenty about singles. Stand your ground, Unregistered. Alura

you should have said to him when you first noticed somthing that it was a threesome or no sum.

Quote: Originally Posted by Unregistered Here is where things start to get strange.....The room had mulitple people in it and he kept closing the door since he was close to it. Now, I am in the room and don't think all that much of it. The three of us are now involved, but he starts to pull the wife away from me into different positions so that she can't pay attention to me. He is aggressive but not overly rough. You did the right...