Today, the wofe and I went out to lunch from work, rather than eating in (my idea.) Now, last weekend, we had gone to the "Everything to do with sex" show, and had a good time, as well as said hi (and were remembered by) the host / hostess of the club we had gone to many months back for a meet and greet.
Well, after our trip to the show, on the ride back, she had said that in part, because ...
Glad you guys are still talking and making some plans to have fun together (lifestyle or not).
I do take exception to the phrase "she has the pussy, she makes the rules". It's really bullshit to me, in a healthy relationship anyway. A marriage is a team where both the man and the woman have an equal importance. If either person is uncomfortable then you need to stop, talk and reassess. Just ...
Jason,
If the two of you go to the club with the only expectation that the two of you are going to have a fun sexy time together, then you will have a fun time no matter what happens. Have fun!
S
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Originally Posted by slevin Glad you guys are still talking and making some plans to have fun together (lifestyle or not).
I do take exception to the phrase "she has the pussy, she makes the rules". It's really bullshit to me, in a healthy relationship anyway. A marriage is a team where both the man and the woman have an equal importance. If either person is ...
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Originally Posted by The Fuse I have to agree with this. warrencouple , I am not trying to pick on you. But it always bugs me when people say this.
In my own relationship, Mr. Fuse makes the rules, even though I am the woman. Why? For the simple fact that he is comfortable with much less than I am in the arena of swinging. In most cases, ...
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Originally Posted by The Fuse So "she who has the pussy makes the rules" annoys me because it is sexist and seems to imply that the man's desires are less important. I have the pussy, I make the rules
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Originally Posted by warrencouple So far, I've managed to leave her be, although today she asked if "I was getting excited about Saturday, too?" As I told her, I'm trying to keep it under control, so if she opts to back out at the last minute, I won't get upset / hurt / angry. Then she asked if I'd heard the "too" in the question (which I had,) and I re-...
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Originally Posted by slevin I sure hope this doesn't come across as picking on you, I'm a bit worried it might after my earlier rant lol, this is intended as some coaching; as I see the situation. Nope, I don't see any of this as being "picked on," if I wanted that, I'd go back to high school...
I see this as exactly what I would expect, people ...
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Originally Posted by warrencouple But, let it never be said that I can't be dumb as a box of lead rocks, and twice as dense... Yeah, you're not the only one lol. Sometimes its easier to see the opportunity in others situations than your own in the moment I know I do a facedesk more often than I'd like after looking back on something that just happened ...
Rather than start a new thread, I figured I'd post some in here again... So, if you've been following along, the wofe and I finally overcame our fears? introversion? shyness? Whatever, and went to our local on-premise club for a Halloween party. That is another thread in itself, and linked a few posts back. Yesterday, I was (sort of) kidding with the wofe about next years Halloween party, and costume ideas (and shes not yet decided...
Quote: Originally Posted by warrencouple Origins of Wofe here: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...xxc-house.html A misspelling by CXXC, has turned into a pet name here! Jason (what am I doing up at 7am, after an interesting night out?) So it's my fault again????? LOL
Re: Still taking steps, albeit small steps... Have a GREAT time tonight!!!! The butterflies will be gone 5 minutes after walking in that door, I guarentee it! __________________ ~Lilo
I would cut out the wishy washy "we go if X, we'll say home if Y, we'll think about it if Z". Make a decision and go with it. In this case, personally, I'd make the call that we aren't going to go this weekend and we'll go for halloween. Decisive is good in a case like this.
I'm piling on with xxxboxy, exploringRM and Chicup. Jason and Mrs. warrencouple -- my thought is that the regrets we have in life usually center around the things we didn't do when we had the chance to try them . Expanding your comfort zones and rousing yourself out of your cocoons will most likely make you feel good , not bad. If you don't do it, you will always wonder. If you do , you'll have a pleasant night out and see...
You have two couples from this board that are going to this party. Put your sexy clothes on and get out of the house! You dog is NOT a reason to not go. Simple solution. Kennel him/her overnight and then pick him/her up the next morning. Kennel costs are around $20 a night. Well worth the price to give you a night away! And if you don't have a kennel close, you said the club was 1.5 hours away. I know you could find a place enroute to the...
Quote: Originally Posted by The Fuse You know, you may want to rethink that strategy. "She is having her period" is a good way to eliminate any internal pressure Mrs. W may be putting on herself, and declare that you are just there to see the scene. I was just going to say the same thing as Mrs. Fuse did. Going to a club is a lot of fun. It may bench ya', but damn it is a lot of fun anyway! And it will give you an...
Quote: Originally Posted by The Fuse I'm piling on with xxxboxy, exploringRM and Chicup. Jason and Mrs. warrencouple -- my thought is that the regrets we have in life usually center around the things we didn't do when we had the chance to try them . Expanding your comfort zones and rousing yourself out of your cocoons will most likely make you feel good , not bad. If you don't do it, you will always wonder. If you do ,...
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