Posts Topics Forums Images
Search videos from message boards Videos Search messages from microblogs Microblogs Search messages from imdb.com Imdb Search messages from yuku.com Yuku Search messages from lefora.com (free forums) Lefora
My account: Login | Sign Up
Loading... 

Thread: Still taking steps, albeit small steps...

Started 2 months, 2 weeks ago by warrencouple
Today, the wofe and I went out to lunch from work, rather than eating in (my idea.) Now, last weekend, we had gone to the "Everything to do with sex" show, and had a good time, as well as said hi (and were remembered by) the host / hostess of the club we had gone to many months back for a meet and greet. Well, after our trip to the show, on the ride back, she had said that in part, because ...
Site: The Swingers Board - Powered by vBulletin  The Swingers Board - Powered by vBulletin - site profile
Forum: General Swingers Stuff  General Swingers Stuff - forum profile
Total authors: 20 authors
Total thread posts: 91 post
Thread activity: no new posts during last week
Domain info for: swingersboard.com

Other posts in this thread:

Rackir replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Good luck Jason, I hope you guys do go and have a wonderful time!

slevin replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Glad you guys are still talking and making some plans to have fun together (lifestyle or not). I do take exception to the phrase "she has the pussy, she makes the rules". It's really bullshit to me, in a healthy relationship anyway. A marriage is a team where both the man and the woman have an equal importance. If either person is uncomfortable then you need to stop, talk and reassess. Just ...

ncmd_couple replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Jason, If the two of you go to the club with the only expectation that the two of you are going to have a fun sexy time together, then you will have a fun time no matter what happens. Have fun! S

The Fuse replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by slevin Glad you guys are still talking and making some plans to have fun together (lifestyle or not). I do take exception to the phrase "she has the pussy, she makes the rules". It's really bullshit to me, in a healthy relationship anyway. A marriage is a team where both the man and the woman have an equal importance. If either person is ...

warrencouple replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by The Fuse I have to agree with this. warrencouple , I am not trying to pick on you. But it always bugs me when people say this. In my own relationship, Mr. Fuse makes the rules, even though I am the woman. Why? For the simple fact that he is comfortable with much less than I am in the arena of swinging. In most cases, ...

Chicup replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by The Fuse So "she who has the pussy makes the rules" annoys me because it is sexist and seems to imply that the man's desires are less important. I have the pussy, I make the rules

slevin replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by warrencouple So far, I've managed to leave her be, although today she asked if "I was getting excited about Saturday, too?" As I told her, I'm trying to keep it under control, so if she opts to back out at the last minute, I won't get upset / hurt / angry. Then she asked if I'd heard the "too" in the question (which I had,) and I re-...

The Fuse replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by Chicup I have the pussy, I make the rules

warrencouple replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by slevin I sure hope this doesn't come across as picking on you, I'm a bit worried it might after my earlier rant lol, this is intended as some coaching; as I see the situation. Nope, I don't see any of this as being "picked on," if I wanted that, I'd go back to high school... I see this as exactly what I would expect, people ...

slevin replied 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by warrencouple But, let it never be said that I can't be dumb as a box of lead rocks, and twice as dense... Yeah, you're not the only one lol. Sometimes its easier to see the opportunity in others situations than your own in the moment I know I do a facedesk more often than I'd like after looking back on something that just happened ...

 

Top contributing authors

Name
Posts
warrencouple
31
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-11-01 16:27:00)
Rather than start a new thread, I figured I'd post some in here again... So, if you've been following along, the wofe and I finally overcame our fears? introversion? shyness? Whatever, and went to our local on-premise club for a Halloween party. That is another thread in itself, and linked a few posts back. Yesterday, I was (sort of) kidding with the wofe about next years Halloween party, and costume ideas (and shes not yet decided...
CXXC
9
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-31 13:55:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by warrencouple Origins of Wofe here: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...xxc-house.html A misspelling by CXXC, has turned into a pet name here! Jason (what am I doing up at 7am, after an interesting night out?) So it's my fault again????? LOL
ALilOEverything
7
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-30 19:56:00)
Re: Still taking steps, albeit small steps... Have a GREAT time tonight!!!! The butterflies will be gone 5 minutes after walking in that door, I guarentee it! __________________ ~Lilo
slevin
6
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-18 21:20:00)
I would cut out the wishy washy "we go if X, we'll say home if Y, we'll think about it if Z". Make a decision and go with it. In this case, personally, I'd make the call that we aren't going to go this weekend and we'll go for halloween. Decisive is good in a case like this.
The Fuse
5
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-25 19:32:00)
I'm piling on with xxxboxy, exploringRM and Chicup. Jason and Mrs. warrencouple -- my thought is that the regrets we have in life usually center around the things we didn't do when we had the chance to try them . Expanding your comfort zones and rousing yourself out of your cocoons will most likely make you feel good , not bad. If you don't do it, you will always wonder. If you do , you'll have a pleasant night out and see...
Elena
4
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-26 09:34:00)
You have two couples from this board that are going to this party. Put your sexy clothes on and get out of the house! You dog is NOT a reason to not go. Simple solution. Kennel him/her overnight and then pick him/her up the next morning. Kennel costs are around $20 a night. Well worth the price to give you a night away! And if you don't have a kennel close, you said the club was 1.5 hours away. I know you could find a place enroute to the...
xxxboxy
4
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-30 17:57:00)
Re: Still taking steps, albeit small steps... Get on out there, look, see and hopefully enjoy yourself. I hope you have a great evening.
Chicup
4
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-31 14:25:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by CXXC So it's my fault again????? LOL Good, now I know who to blame.
ncmd_couple
3
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-18 20:18:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by The Fuse You know, you may want to rethink that strategy. "She is having her period" is a good way to eliminate any internal pressure Mrs. W may be putting on herself, and declare that you are just there to see the scene. I was just going to say the same thing as Mrs. Fuse did. Going to a club is a lot of fun. It may bench ya', but damn it is a lot of fun anyway! And it will give you an...
N8ture Girl
3
user's latest post:
Still taking steps, albeit small...
Published (2009-10-25 20:02:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by The Fuse I'm piling on with xxxboxy, exploringRM and Chicup. Jason and Mrs. warrencouple -- my thought is that the regrets we have in life usually center around the things we didn't do when we had the chance to try them . Expanding your comfort zones and rousing yourself out of your cocoons will most likely make you feel good , not bad. If you don't do it, you will always wonder. If you do ,...

Related threads on other sites:

Thread profile page for "Still taking steps, albeit small steps..." on http://www.swingersboard.com. This report page is a snippet summary view from a single thread "Still taking steps, albeit small steps...", located on the Message Board at http://www.swingersboard.com. This thread profile page shows the thread statistics for: Total Authors, Total Thread Posts, and Thread Activity