I had a girlfriend who i lost my virginity too, and we went out for a couple of years. After that I had some 'vertical issues' when i tried to have sex the next time, due to anxiety. Since then though i was kind of seeing a girl and have got over it, and been having no problems down there at all. Problem is, I've been seeing a new girl about a week now, and cos i really like ...
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Originally Posted by bobby444 i've been really nervous about having sex with her (heart starts beating really fast, fast breathing etc).
That sounds normal, get her to suck you off a couple of times, munk on her diddies....stop putting wome in some high untouchable pedestal..
If you can't get a hard on, blame her for being sh1t in bed....women ...
Viagra always does the trick if you can get hold of any mate.
Other than that, just relax and be confident.
Women like it when a guy is confident in bed. If you are shy and act like you don't know what your doing it will turn her right off (in most cases anyway).
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Originally Posted by Uriel That sounds normal, get her to suck you off a couple of times, munk on her diddies....stop putting wome in some high untouchable pedestal..
If you can't get a hard on, blame her for being sh1t in bed....women love that
haha agreed, but seriously get over it, women love a confident bloke to acts like he knows what he's ...
I get this sometimes too. Anxious on if you'll please her well etc?
I think what's best is if you have a good ol' fashioned romp first with a lot of heavy petting, this should loosen up the cogs, get you used to her in a sexual context.
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Originally Posted by Uriel That sounds normal, get her to suck you off a couple of times, munk on her diddies....stop putting wome in some high untouchable pedestal..
If you can't get a hard on, blame her for being sh1t in bed....women love that sound advice there, i hear the Sun's after a replacement for dear Deirdre you'd be perfect i'll ...
Yeh ive experienced that before! Just try take things a little slower, its still early days! If you really like this girl, once you feel comfortable with her, there shouldn't be any problems! Try not to think about it too much, as this will put added pressure on yourself to perform!
Relax dude,
when u do finally get naked with this one..
just get naked under covers and relax, enjoy the kissing and slow foreplay.. there is no pressure then.. u can do that for hours if u want so when the lil fella finally wakes up then go for gold! she'll think you're awesome coz u give her so much attention during foreplay.. win win!
tell her you only do ano for the first time. and get your self realy angry and wound up,
with a bit of drink and valium, that will give you help with your confidenes!
Quote: Originally Posted by BLUTOS Mate take it easy, if youv'e got more fingers than you've had sexual partners it can be a bit off putting, you aint doing a driving test or gonna get marks from an imaginary judging panel. Stop worrying and listen to Kevin Bloody Wilsons "it was over" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WMwo07W_nx0 Unless he fancies videoing it and posting it on the AL, then we can mark him on it
Quote: Originally Posted by gold95 i'm actually a nice guy theres only been 1 time she's been p#ssed at me, a couple of weeks ago we were having a drink in the pub then i went for a wee when i got back she's crying & i asked what was wrong, she said the guy over there said he wanted to fill her fanny with guinness & slurp it out. & when i sat & drank my pint she said are you not going over to...
Quote: Originally Posted by WRT Lol f*cking hell mate, wouldn't stand for that. Even if you get battered you've stood up for your woman. i'm only joking, everybody takes what i say seriously don't know why. as if i'd let anyone say that. if anyone did they should be more worried about what she'd do to them not me.
Quote: Originally Posted by Uriel That sounds normal, get her to suck you off a couple of times, munk on her diddies....stop putting wome in some high untouchable pedestal.. If you can't get a hard on, blame her for being sh1t in bed....women love that Quote: Originally Posted by Uriel Me too, I fuk off out for the day and leave her a ton on the dinning table 2 actual lol moments off one thread have some imaginary reps pal.
Thing most guys forget is that sex ins't on a womans top list of priorities (well ... most). If she's a nice girl it probably wouldn't bother her all that much anyway. But for safety's sake, you can't go wrong making her cum by going down on her, first on the clitoral hood, then gradually harder until you've got her pearl on your tongue.
Quote: Originally Posted by johnnyreid haha agreed, but seriously get over it, women love a confident bloke to acts like he knows what he's doin even if you dont lol Actually true.
Quote: Originally Posted by bobby444 THanks for the comments guys! It seems to only happen the first time i do it with a girl, after that i'm fine. I do know how to pleasure a girl, so im not lacking that much confidence, I know this is all in my head anyway. I just need to remind myself, it's just sex! I'll let you guys know how it goes, hopefully well!! Work her off with the fingers then go down for the honey pot, women love...
Quote: Originally Posted by Uriel That sounds normal, get her to suck you off a couple of times, munk on her diddies....stop putting wome in some high untouchable pedestal.. If you can't get a hard on, blame her for being sh1t in bed....women love that Reminded me of 40 year old virgin, burst out laughing when i read it!! 40 year old virgin quote! "You know what your problem is? You're putting the pussy on a pedestal"
THanks for the comments guys! It seems to only happen the first time i do it with a girl, after that i'm fine. I do know how to pleasure a girl, so im not lacking that much confidence, I know this is all in my head anyway. I just need to remind myself, it's just sex! I'll let you guys know how it goes, hopefully well!!
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