Thread: Rohypnol at a party - Somone put it in our drinks!

From a moral ideological standpoint, we are in complete agreement with those who believe this apparent crime should be reported to the police. If someone is charged with a crime, however, we would not assume that your privacy will be protected. Aside from a few exceptions (which vary by State), court records are open to the public (including the news media). In this case (party because of the nature of the party you attended), we would assume...

Quote: Originally Posted by 2jersey One point which is missing from this entire discussion (so far) is that Rohypnol is used (by certain people) as a recreational drug (i.e. it is often self-administered). The mere presence of this drug in one's blood/urine is not conclusive evidence that they are victims of a crime. For as far as I know, Rohypnol wouldn't be used ALONE as a recreational drug, since you will forget everithing about...

Quote: Originally Posted by fun4Ds alot of people have wanted us to let the authorities handel this. we are not ready to risk the exposure.wouldn't that make us the bigger piece of shit in the swinging community? we would like to at least feel good that we can keep the people we have met identitys confadintial...... I would think the only people who would be upset are the people who drugged you. I would also like to think that the rest...

I'm a little puzzled. You seem to be reluctant to bring charges against these people, or even to get the police involved. This, in spite of the fact that you were both administered a debilitating drug against your will, and your wife was, in all likehood, raped by one or more individuals. I guess my question is, "How bad would it have to be, to get you to DO something about this? If she had "only" had an adverse...

Wow, I think that is the worst thing I have heard to date and it makes me pretty angry thinking about it. You guys were drugged against your knowledge and who knows what happened....the word that comes to mind is rape. Even if nothing happened sexually your free will was raped. I would be tempted to call the police, but I know you have to think this one out for yourselves. As far as being banned, maybe the hosts thought it was you slipping...

yes we are going to seek some counseling its been very depressing .we have swinger friends but we have been on a major lifestyle break. this is not something you can talk to family about maby other swingers. mrs fun has been very supportive with a lot of love notes on the table. may sound kinda strange but we are kind of making a few jokes from time to time. like the day of the party mrs.fun said i may be in for a big surprise.well it certanly...

Quote: Originally Posted by CandPinSA I could be mistaken, but I thought I read that when they made it home, his wife had passed out to the point that he took her to the emergency room... where their " toxicology test " revealed the presence or rohypnol. Aha right you are, I missed that. Still don't see how it could help without a rape kit though, plenty of people do take roofies intentionally.

Quote: Originally Posted by JnCC Oh, come on! You know that when a spade goes by more than one name, I try to use the least offensive one...

<<<HUGS>>> It's NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!!! MrsOttawaCuple

Please take the time to find some victim counseling. Be it hotline (1-800), therapist, psychologist or whatever you can lay your hands on. At this stage both of you NEED someone on the outside of the situation to talk to, someone that can relate to being a victim and who is trained to recognize all of the symptoms you are experiencing !! Often times situations like these lead to severe depression, loss of self esteem, on and on and it can go...