Thread: Questioning Poly again

Thanks all for your responses. Our houseguest are just about to move out. They would have been gone except for the fact that the plumbing in their new house was screwed. So we came to the rescue and should have their water on tommorow. Now for the questions asked. Knowing they were only temporary, I dont think this made a difference to our thinking. It may have made it worse. They were just here but not being integrated into our lives so there...

Re: Questioning Poly again Ed & Bunny, We had a close female friend of L's live with us for a very long time as she went through a separation and a move across the country to our area at the time. Having someone stay with you, either for a few weeks, or a couple of years, there is one thing in the back of your mind, they are leaving at one point. In a poly relationship, with someone living with you and you are wanting it to be a...

Mrs. and I discovered a long time ago that we are very "communal", we like being with other couples especially in a communal setting where we all support each other. So I understand where you are coming from with your post. Right now we are in a MFM triad and our secondary lives with us. It's definitely different than a MFMF situation though having to split my time with my wife with him, where for 12 years I've had...

It's been a goal for quite some time for the four of us to live together. I won't speak for the others because, while we've discussed this over time and thoughts have changed I don't know if that is still the case. It is for me and I'll tell you what has changed and some of why. I would absolutely love to see Tech at least thirty minutes a day. But, for us to all live in the same house, it would have to be one special...

This is a really nice post. Thanks for sharing. It is so interesting how certain combinations of greater-than-two can get along so seamlessly. Adding sex and love to that mix adds to the complexities of getting along. And then how some people who love each other are by no means guaranteed to get along in a living situation. It's a special brew of personalities who can make it work.