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Originally Posted by antireconquista
Same here.
SO do you ask potential lovers for their green card before doing anything?
After all, even if they talk like an American, they might be a Canadian illegal....
Same here. I have before yes. I used to date a Russian Legal Immigrant. When I met her she had a terrible accent. I asked her if she was here legally or Illegally. She said legally so I said prove it.
No I would not. As a matter of fact I was actually put to the test about 6 years ago. A friend of mine is Married to a filipino. Her aunt is here illegally. They tried to hook me up with her. I met her, she was a nice enough person and later they told me she was here with an expired VISA. I politely excused myself and left their home. I called and reported her when I got home.
Needless to say ...
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Originally Posted by majoun
SO do you ask potential lovers for their green card before doing anything?
After all, even if they talk like an American, they might be a Canadian illegal....
I wouldn't let it progress that far. If I felt that she was an immigrant I would verify as best I could her legal ...
no i would not. not because of the supposed criminality of the person, but rather because of the INSECURITY of living with a person that can be snatched up at any moment creates.
the life of an undocumented person is full of over the shoulder glances.
i wouldnt be able to deal with that psychologically.
i deal with enough looking over my shoulder for one household.
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no i would not. not because of the supposed criminality of the person, but rather because of the INSECURITY of living with a person that can be snatched up at any moment.
the life of an undocumented person is full of over the shoulder glances.
i wouldnt be able to deal with that ...
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No I would not. As a matter of fact I was actually put to the test about 6 years ago. A friend of mine is Married to a filipino. Her aunt is here illegally. They tried to hook me up with her. I met her, she was a nice enough person and later they told me she was here with an expired VISA. I politely excused myself and left their home. I called and reported her...
Under no circumstances would I enter into a relationship with a man who is in this country illegally, or involved in any unlawful behavior. My ex is a legal immigrant, and at no time was he in this country illegally. As a matter of fact, he loathes illegal immigration. Ive tried to get him to join our discussions, but he said he would probably get banned after a few posts.
Quote: Originally Posted by majoun British and Irish illegals are considered the elite of illegal immigrants due to being English speaking. (Not to mention the British accent being regarded as "cultured" and "educated", even accents that are not considered "cultured" and "educated" in Britain like Scouse. And this isn't just true for whites only, I've noticed...
If I were dating a woman and found out that she was an illegal I would feel repulsed, lied to and cheated. The only viable conclusion would be to dump her and call ICE.
its not a huge majority that exploits it. prove that! just because a law or policy is encated does not mean it happens a lot. if could have happened just once, and the govt learned their lesson and created this law. your logic makes no sense. all i ask is that you prove your point with stats. since you cant, there is no reason to continue this. come better sister. Quote: Originally Posted by 1AngryTaxPayer I'm not marrying one so why...
Quote: Originally Posted by ac213 By illegals, you mean all the Hispanics, Asians, Europeans? Or do you mean a specific race? And within that race, do you mean to say only the illegal ones are ugly? Iffy. DC has some really ugly women that come in all colors. Trust me.
Quote: Originally Posted by malamute I think someone who is in a serious relationship with an illegal and encouraging the illegal to remain illegal has his/her own agenda. Very much like an employer of illegals - they prefer the illegal status of their lover as a way to maintain power in the relationship. Otherwise, if someone cared about someone else, they would not encourage that person to break the law, and if they loved that person, they...
Malamute wrote:"There would be definite advantages in being able to call "la migra" on the illegal when the relationship is over". You can say that again! I wished I could've called ICE on some of my exes! Quote: Originally Posted by roosevelt I'm sure if all the blonds from Scandinavia were to sneak into the United States there would be a change of attitude. Then it would be like the situation...
Under no circumstances would I enter into a relationship with a man who is in this country illegally, or involved in any unlawful behavior. My ex is a legal immigrant, and at no time was he in this country illegally. As a matter of fact, he loathes illegal immigration. Ive tried to get him to join our discussions, but he said he would probably get banned after a few posts.
Quote: No I would not. As a matter of fact I was actually put to the test about 6 years ago. A friend of mine is Married to a filipino. Her aunt is here illegally. They tried to hook me up with her. I met her, she was a nice enough person and later they told me she was here with an expired VISA. I politely excused myself and left their home. I called and reported her when I got home. Needless to say they and I are no longer on each others...
I think someone who is in a serious relationship with an illegal and encouraging the illegal to remain illegal has his/her own agenda. Very much like an employer of illegals - they prefer the illegal status of their lover as a way to maintain power in the relationship. Otherwise, if someone cared about someone else, they would not encourage that person to break the law, and if they loved that person, they would want them to go home and do...
Quote: Originally Posted by ArizonaBear Point taken..............which would now be moot as it is. Mitt Romney was born in the USA and I believe that his mother was also a US citizen. But what about George, his father. Was Michigan an enabler? Was the Republican Party?
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