Thread: Pregnant and freaking out

Hey, I just wanted to say thanks for the support and the great links.  They were very informational and helpful for me at the time to figure out what I may have been dealing with.   As for now, I'm doing OK, still haven't miscarried - the docs said that could take awhile which is longer than I wish to wait so I will be taking matters into my own hands this week so as to have some control over the...

i just scrolled back up to your first post and see that you are only 4 weeks pregnant! That certainly could be a reason there was no HB yet! Plz dont give up hope yet, it could just be too early!!

melimeli---Wow, your post is uncalled for.  You are in a sense placing blame on the OP.....VERY VERRY insensitive to the OP.  If you want to try to help people in these forums...you need to be careful what you post....after all, there are people on the other side of your screen. OP...I'm sorry about the news.  While I understand that people want to hold out hope....you all must...

and here is some extra hugs from me too..........sara

Thanks for letting us know how you are.  This forum is a great place to be, I am always learning from the experiences of others. Best wishes for whatever you decide to do.

I never meant to imply that u were self absorbed..i do know that when a erson is depressed..theybecome self absobed to protect themselves...ther becomes a lack of nrg to worry bout outside things,,,recently was in this state...hierarchy of needs is to live...and when u r depressed it is all we can do to make it thru the day much less making our friends and family problems part of our won agenda Sub is a strong narcotic...babies born to...

Hey! Hope you are doing ok. :) You are actually on a low dose compared to what I was on so that is definitely a plus for you! I was on 12 - 16 mgs DAILY! My sub doc did not switch me to subutex. She kept me on sub. My son (born on sub) will be 3 yrs old next month. And my daughter just turned 1 in Oct. Both of them are healthy, happy babies. Please keep in touch as I know this can be a very scary time and I will be glad to share any info I...

Sign, I am sooooooo sorry .regardless of the situation its so hard to lose a baby .Just remeber alot of the time even when they say you wont be able to have an more kids it does not happen that way .You also may be at the point where you dont feel the need to have more .I have lost a baby so if you ever need to talk pm me .Keep working on that taper so you can get off the sub .Enjoy all of the wonderful things you do have in your life we are...

slowly reduce your doseage until youre down to zero

I am really sorry,  but I have not read or have any knowledge of an aprox 4 to 6 week fetus going thru w/d,  rather the concern would be more of development of the fetus and the impact of drug usage during this time.   I would strongly recommend you make another appt with your doctor and get more specific information which  will give you the knowledge you need to make the...