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Thread: Parking and Neighbour ??

Started 3 weeks, 6 days ago by butterfield
3 cars in household - park one in drive and 2 on street in front of house usually same space. At times these spaces are taken and occasionally we have to park on opposite side of street, neighbour always leave note on car saying don't park so close to their drive. This also happens to anyone who parks there!! Car is never near or obstructing drive - they are living on street for over 30 ...
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Purple replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
No clever ideas but as I am sure you are aware nobody owns the road space in front of their house.

truthseeker replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Just bin the note and carry on parking. Or take a pic of your car not obstructing his drive and post it into him with his note explaining that you are not obstructing his driveway and please stop leaving you notes.

liaconn replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
I agree with truthseeker. Just ignore them. We all have to put up with people parking outside our houses. Yes, it can be annoying at times but if it's a public road then they're perfectly entitled to. The worst he can do is call the guards who will not be impressed with having their time wasted like that.

JoeBallantin replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Well, not necessarily.. if he's arrogant like youo describe, and feels he owns the space outside his house he may engage in petty criminal damge to spite you. In other words I would par there no problem, it's not his space and his attitude would annoy me. However if you come back to your car to find it scraped, or mirrors broken etc what then? Sometimes it's easier to let the bully have his...

Ceist Beag replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Quote: Originally Posted by JoeBallantin Well, not necessarily.. if he's arrogant like youo describe, and feels he owns the space outside his house he may engage in petty criminal damge to spite you. In other words I would par there no problem, it's not his space and his attitude would annoy me. However if you come back to your ...

butterfield replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Thanks for replies and I know the right thing is to "rise above it" ... it can be so annoying though sometimes you feel like fighting back !! We usually ignore it and park when necessary like most of you said. Just needed to vent a little.

JoeBallantin replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Ceist Beag I don't agree completely. I believe that the type of person who does what the OP is decribing is different to the majority... most people don't put notes on cars in this situation. The neighbour doesn't own the space, yet behaves as if he does... so his behaviour can't be easily predicted. I have seen this situation, where my neighbour called into my houose asking me to move my ...

TreeTiger replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Quote: Originally Posted by butterfield Anyone have any clever ideas to get over this ?? Maybe print out the contents of this link & stick it in his letterbox.

MrMan replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Maybe the neighbour is used to have a less clogged road having been there 30 years. It can be annoying when houses have 3 cars and then park outside your house. Can the OP not fit 2 cars in his drive one behind the other? The neighbour doesn't sound daft, they are probably just used to people keeping to their own space a bit more.

mathepac replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Quote: Originally Posted by MrMan ... The neighbour doesn't sound daft, ... I agree, the neighbour sounds more like an unbalanced busybody.

 

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I think they need to describe it as 'abandoned' though for the gardaí to take notice. Mentioning that kids have been sniffing around won't do any harm either.
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there is absolutely no question of us obstructing the drive in any way. They are like an earlier post said 'lonely retired with nothing to do' . But it is their arrogance that annoys me - I would not dream of being like this to any of my neighbours about something as trivial as this .... and it happens so infrequently I feel it is very un neighbourly to leave notes.
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Quote: Originally Posted by LS400 I Agree, Every house should come with a car turn table.. Think what you guys are saying. No Need LS400,You are perfectly entitled to reverse out of your driveway. Caveat ,banie01 and mathpac have got their facts wrong.
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Quote: Originally Posted by TheBlock Thanks for the advice Caveat and TS. The estate is private so the management company may be the route to go down. I don't know if I'd feel like I was being a bit sneaky/underhanded by directly approching the management company with a view to getting it towed before giving the neighbour a chance to move it. Maybe I should call them and ask them to have a word with the neighbour in question? By the...
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Ceist Beag I don't agree completely. I believe that the type of person who does what the OP is decribing is different to the majority... most people don't put notes on cars in this situation. The neighbour doesn't own the space, yet behaves as if he does... so his behaviour can't be easily predicted. I have seen this situation, where my neighbour called into my houose asking me to move my vehicle, so she could park outside...
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Published (2009-11-10 00:15:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by butterfield there is absolutely no question of us obstructing the drive in any way. They are like an earlier post said 'lonely retired with nothing to do' . But it is their arrogance that annoys me - I would not dream of being like this to any of my neighbours about something as trivial as this .... and it happens so infrequently I feel it is very un neighbourly to leave notes. Well in that case, ok maybe...
Ceist Beag
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You obviously had a bad experience JoeB but I wouldn't go tarring every annoying neighbour with the same brush - to me the neighbour doesn't sound like someone ready to indulge in criminal damage. More like it sounds like someone who has lived most of their life in an area where they had things a certain way and now doesn't take too well having a neighbour who does things a bit differently. More of a Victor Meldrew I'd say...
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Published (2009-11-10 16:01:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Kine Needless to say repeat offenders were "discouraged" By reporting them to the gardai or local traffic authority presumably? Parking on the grass verge is illegal and I know people who have been ticketed for doing it.
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Friends of my parents have had a white transit van parked across the road from their house for weeks and weeks and it hasn't been moved. Tax, insurance and nct are all out of date. When they rang the Guards about it they were told it was a public road and the owner was entitled to leave it there .

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