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Thread: Opinions sought re: cheating

Started 1 month ago by RmblnMn
I'm seeking opinons as to whether utilizing the services of a pro domme would be considered cheating when one is living a celibate life because: a.) one's spouse no longer has any interest at all in sex and no longer engages in it. b.) the spouse, formerly quite open-minded, now considers any form of sex, other than 'vanilla' to be somewhat perverse. c.) the celibacy is NOT a ...
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intothewoods replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
I have to say, generally speaking, to get ahead in one's career, one shouldn't necessarily be an aggressive, domineering asshole. Should you be assertive? Some of the characteristically dominant personality traits are quite helpful. Confidence, assertiveness, boldness, etc. However, at least in a service industry, it's also quite helpful to listen attentively, aim to please (the client's ...

eastern sun replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by intothewoods I have to say, generally speaking, to get ahead in one's career, one shouldn't necessarily be an aggressive, domineering asshole. Should you be assertive? Some of the characteristically dominant personality traits are quite helpful. Confidence, assertiveness, boldness, etc. However, at least...

ownedsubgal replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by Netzach That's a really nice observation. I dig. But I always liked romantic stories that involved a LOT of male suffering. I also think that when things are framed as service it's different. I groove on a particular kind of dignity in service at baseline - if I want to make that person a ...

ownedsubgal replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by Homburg If someone is called a "doormat" in a derogatory fashion, it is offensive. It is not just a pejorative, but calling into question large swaths of their personality, lifestyle, etc. In the case of someone in a D/s relationship, it is deriding a core portion of their sexuality and, often, ...

Netzach replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by ownedsubgal i get it, you are turned off by the spineless, no self-esteem, self-denigrating thing, which often comes with doormat types. you don't want someone coming to you crying and despairing over how much they hate themselves and can't help it, etc. Non PC disclosure - Actually that...

ownedsubgal replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by Netzach Non PC disclosure - Actually that makes me really hot. I just like it with a lot of conflict attached. I like it when it's not the only thing going on. I like a dose of self-loathing because it's fun to poke bruises. Double tripe scoop of hotness from "I can't help it." Again, I kind of require ...

Netzach replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by ownedsubgal well yeah, as i read it you dig it when you have some juicy worthless pond scum buttons to push. but if someone is stuck in that one setting...what's to push? and moreover, how would that person be tolerable on a regular basis? that's all i was saying. and yeah you are greedy, but what Domly type...

ownedsubgal replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
Quote: Originally Posted by Netzach I don't know. The ones who like healthy puppies best? mmm, also, I feel strongly that if H is with the big bad outside world EXACTLY how he is with me, guess what happens. Yeah, that. So it behooves him and it behooves me to make it a compartment. I know our opinions probably diverge on ...

boredinflorida replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
We have done many things in the course of our marriage, but this is one that hasn't happened yet I would love to see her get fucked by a guy, and then have the privaledge of eating his cum right out of her pussy...I normally am the dominant factor in things we do..But one day I would just love to hear her say, This guy fucked me so good, and his cum in my mouth is delicious, clean his cock ...

Marquis replied 3 months, 2 weeks ago
fags.

 

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I've played a lot of ways, hard and less hard, with a lot of people. I've had fiscal, peer, and self-imposed pressure to play harder, edgier, etc. Guess what - you're allowed to have limits. You're allowed to try something and say to yourself "that wasn't so hot for me as it was for you, and I don't intend to do it" if you don't like it. That little saw goes both ways, the limits thing.
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Ask. Talk it out of him. TOP it out of him, if you must.
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Quote: Originally Posted by intothewoods Because you don't have enough energy? I've never read this book. The idea is to turn the consequences so they're their fault. Like 'because I spent so much energy getting you ready for school today I won't have the energy to take you to the park this afternoon'. A lot of what they teach is good; the books is HUGE on consistency and logical consequences and all that. But I...
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Thanks, everyone. We're kind of taking some time apart to think for a few days, to hopefully return with clearer heads, before we do anything else. I'll let y'all know how it goes.
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Quote: Originally Posted by the captians wench I've lived a lot more life than my years show. Good and bad. I heard THAT! I am baking raw apple bread for my Master and another Dominant friend of mine. It's smelling SO FREAKIN GOOD!!!!!!!! __________________ Frank's slave, Crystal http://www.crystalbrewton.biz/ http://www.literotica.com/stories/me...ge=submissions
WriterDom
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Published (2009-12-09 18:21:00)
Objects can be used. The kid I grew up with two doors down well his dad would beat his ass on the back porch with a belt. His brother too. I guess for the embarrassment factor. The virgin I dated got spanked with a yardstick. Too bad I never thought about using one on her. __________________ http://writerdom.wordpress.com

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