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Thread: Ness Goes to Church...Again

Started 1 month, 3 weeks ago by Ness757
Today, I paid a visit to a church here in San Diego. It was recommended to me by a girl I work with. At first I didn't want to go. For one thing, I was not a Christian and even when I was, I found church to be nothing more than a waste of time. Then my friend told me the church had a lot of hot girls. Hmmm, maybe it wouldn't be so bad after all... I'm going to start out with the ...
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TR1985 replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
What was the denomination? I remember you were a fundamentalist baptist, and perhaps you went to another one. There are some good Methodist and Lutheran Churches I've been to. Who knows, maybe you are secretly waiting to be a good cafeteria Catholic.

parlance_hacker replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
Ness757, I'm sorry to hear that your latest church-going experience was so negative. I know you said, "It's not the church or the preacher, it's the religion." I didn't see enough in your post to convince me of that. Yes, you've had a run of similar experiences, but you'll find a wide array of Christians if you look a bit further. (None of them will be perfect, though.) Not all of us...

Danokan replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
Ness757 wrote: 4. Desperation. Many of the Christians here on Perspectives got mad at me when I said they were desperate to believe in God. Yet this church encouraged it. One of the songs was centered around being desperate for God. Desperation is not a good mentality to have. Is this the song ness? This is the air I breathe This is the air I ...

TR1985 replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
Danokan wrote: Ness757 wrote: 4. Desperation. Many of the Christians here on Perspectives got mad at me when I said they were desperate to believe in God. Yet this church encouraged it. One of the songs was centered around being desperate for God. Desperation is not a good mentality to have. Is this the song ness? This is the air I breathe This is ...

Ness757 replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
TR1985 wrote: What was the denomination? I remember you were a fundamentalist baptist, and perhaps you went to another one. There are some good Methodist and Lutheran Churches I've been to. Who knows, maybe you are secretly waiting to be a good cafeteria Catholic. It was a non-denominational church. Wait, who did you used to be? @parlance-hacker I am well of ...

Repenta replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
Ness, there is absolutely no sense in going to any mainstream Christian churches. And especially if all you are interested in is meeting girls. I see now that this higher power could just be mind over matter. I think you could believe in this and still be an atheist. It does not seem that much has changed in you, but I am glad you are happier.

Ness757 replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
Repenta wrote: Ness, there is absolutely no sense in going to any mainstream Christian churches. And especially if all you are interested in is meeting girls. I see now that this higher power could just be mind over matter. I think you could believe in this and still be an atheist. It does not seem that much has changed in you, but I am glad you are happier. I didn't go just to ...

madmex1966 replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
Try a Unitarian Church if you are still interested.

AMLSurvivor replied 1 month, 3 weeks ago
TR1985 wrote: Danokan wrote: Ness757 wrote: 4. Desperation. Many of the Christians here on Perspectives got mad at me when I said they were desperate to believe in God. Yet this church encouraged it. One of the songs was centered around being desperate for God. Desperation is not a good mentality to have. Is this the song ness? This is the air I ...

 

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Ness757
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Ness Goes to Church...Again
Published (2009-11-07 23:22:00)
AMLSurvivor wrote: Ness757 wrote: AMLSurvivor wrote: 1.) 1st post - this thread. Ness757 wrote: Christianity just isn't compatible with me and I can't respect ANY set of beliefs that tells people desperation is a good thing. 2.) More importantly, because you said so, but didn't equate what she was actually saying. 3.) See #1 - Yes you did! 5.) We agree on pears. 1. So Christianity is incompatible with me, and I don't...
AMLSurvivor
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Ness Goes to Church...Again
Published (2009-11-08 01:36:00)
Ness757 wrote: AMLSurvivor wrote: Ness757 wrote: AMLSurvivor wrote: 1.) 1st post - this thread. Ness757 wrote: Christianity just isn't compatible with me and I can't respect ANY set of beliefs that tells people desperation is a good thing. 2.) More importantly, because you said so, but didn't equate what she was actually saying. 3.) See #1 - Yes you did! 5.) We agree on pears. 1. So Christianity is incompatible with me, and I...
parlance_hacker
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Published (2009-11-06 06:56:00)
Ness757 wrote: parlance_hacker wrote: Ness, I haven't changed my focus since my first post.  I'm still just trying to do two things: 1.  Clarify the Christian idea of "desperation".  Yes, I am equating this term with the "universal spiritual need" shared by human beings because desperation is a state of being in great need.  (The word can also be used in an emotional sense, and...
sophion
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Published (2009-11-03 18:35:00)
Ali. wrote: sophion wrote: Who made us lustful? The real God! yeah, but it's for a test!; ding dong! [sorry get carried away at times ], so we should control our lust and this is where the 'preventive measures' help If its a test then why are you controlling other people?...forcing women to veil. If its a test then you controll yourself. Dont entertain dirty thoughts when seeing attractive women. Thats what I do all the time. I...
Ali.
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Published (2009-11-04 20:33:00)
sophion wrote: Ali. wrote: sophion wrote: Who made us lustful? The real God! yeah, but it's for a test!; ding dong! [sorry get carried away at times ], so we should control our lust and this is where the 'preventive measures' help If its a test then why are you controlling other people?...forcing women to veil.   do you mean laws of [partially] shariah ruled countries such as Saudi that implement the hijab as...
TR1985
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Published (2009-11-02 15:41:00)
Ness757 wrote: madmex1966 wrote: Try a Unitarian Church if you are still interested. Been there, done that. Too boring. Lol. Tis true. Go to a black church. You won't be bored.
Repenta
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Ness Goes to Church...Again
Published (2009-11-03 04:06:00)
I don't know about anyone else but personally heard the word desperation in any way connected to Christianity. I never in my life even heard the song with desperate in it. I have never heard it in a church sermon, Catholic or Protestant or in any other group which claim they are Christian. One of the definitions that may fit is one that is listed in my dictionary: (of a person) having a great need or desire of something. People can feel...
Danokan
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Ness Goes to Church...Again
Published (2009-11-02 13:39:00)
Ness757 wrote: @Danokan Yes, that is the song.
Dr B
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Ness Goes to Church...Again
Published (2009-11-03 05:43:00)
Ness757 wrote: @Dr. B Awesome. I, a black male, will go to a church with a history of hating on black people. Sure, you could even confront them about it, see what happens. IMO you can't knock a religion unless you have actually really tried them out.
madmex1966
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Published (2009-11-02 04:29:00)
Try a Unitarian Church if you are still interested.

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