Thread: My wife "needs" to have sex with other men

Quote: Originally Posted by sally4sara I probably wouldn't deal with it very well, but I think I'd hold off on the dating till I sorted it all out. The important thing (since you have kids together getting effected by this) is probably getting her in to see that shrink rather than finding dates to go on. Since she has had mental issues in the past, that should be cleared first. Also, even if her head checks out okay, it doesn't...

Quote: Originally Posted by filiph I don't know. I guess I hoped to make her jealous by dating other girls. Off course it hurts a lot, she's the woman of my life and I'm willing to play every game to her back.. And i thought it was a way to show that I was strong ("Other girls want me too, you know").. You make it sound like a very bad idea indeed.. Thanks for that.. I'm not just trying to bust your chops...

Quote: Originally Posted by filiph Indeed, I have no idea what it means. Does she really believe it or is it an easy way to hide the real reason (there's not much to say to a divine mission, is there?).. If she truly believes that she's on some kind of divine mission.. then I would call a shrink.. she needs one.. asap...

Quote: Originally Posted by filiph Yeah, we have two kids (one from a former marriage of her). I considered your proposal but I'm afraid this will drive her in the arms of someone else. Right now, I'm acting happy and going out with other women. However, I wonder whether she's getting nervous 'cause I date other women or for the lack of drama.. Okay, not only does she not want a relationship with you/wants to screw other...

Is your wife referring to having an "open marriage"?

that's a unique way of saying I "i wanna be a ho". best thing you could do is hand her her bags and don't let the door hit you on the way out. she's just using you for a place to stay.

Sounds good to me, actually. I'd halve the bills, keep her around to do the cleaning, and once in a while bring women around (maybe she can join in?). After a while though, I think it was too much stress, so I'd recommend leaving her. If there's too many emotions involved, I recommend going right to leaving her.

No offense, but she sounds absolutely bat sh*t crazy. Either that or its what she thought would anger you the most.

I don't know, I'm starting to smell the stench of a troll here..

If it's not mental illness what do you call it??? Mid life crisis, NPD?? I mean dude her issues eclipses alot of things, and I think you'd be better off? What's next her having an affair and getting preggo with someone else's baby??? And making YOU pay for it??? Dude there's nothing worse than that... File for divorce before you end up more hurt.