Thread: My little voice inside my head bitches people

Quote: Originally Posted by CroMagna I have this exact same problem. I have a little voice in my head that is deeply annoyed with people, that feels that people try to change me, that people analyze me, probe into my private affairs, pick on me, etc. People can really push my buttons this way. I guess that habitual thought pattern is that I'm a pushover . That is an excellent example of an identity-level limiting belief -- the kind of...

Cromagna you said that I have some misanthropic tendencies after thinking about it you are right. I do try to avoid people. I just don’t like to be around strangers. If I am comfortable I am myself but with strangers I become self-conscious. That why a lot of people think I am snob because I don’t need be around people or do what other people are doing. I think it’s because when I was young I was teased a lot. In...

I have this exact same problem. I have a little voice in my head that is deeply annoyed with people, that feels that people try to change me, that people analyze me, probe into my private affairs, pick on me, etc. People can really push my buttons this way. I guess that habitual thought pattern is that I'm a pushover . As a child I was somewhat of a pushover and of course I was also a child. Now is time to let go of the belief that people...

What a coincidence: I sometimes have a voice like that too! I think we all have, at least with some people. It can relate to feeling inferior to them or not being happy with your life/job. One advice, which I've been giving a lot lately, is look into CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). It has some interesting techniques for changing your self-talk. I use them a lot for myself and with clients and they're the most effective tool for...

Quote: Originally Posted by sweetmotion I am in the process of figure out my thoughts and I know realize I have a little voice inside my head that bitches people a lot. Most the time I do it at work. If I am working and hear some things I don’t like I always think I don’t want to hear you shut up. I do it a lot. I just can’t stand some behaviors. The problem is I think I shouldn’t feel this way. I feel I should be able to just ignore the...

I have a question for you how do you disconnect from the voice? I will give you a method, rather than advice (maybe you can experiment with it and see if it works) This is called grounding When you hear the voice or whatever you don't want in your head/life.. imagine a little cord from the bottom tip of your spine to the earth or to the center of the earth.. it can be a root, chain, beam of light.. whatever you imagine.. After opening it...

Quote: Originally Posted by sweetmotion I am in the process of figure out my thoughts and I know realize I have a little voice inside my head that bitches people a lot. Most the time I do it at work. If I am working and hear some things I don’t like I always think I don’t want to hear you shut up. I do it a lot. I just can’t stand some behaviors. The problem is I think I shouldn’t feel this way. I feel I should be able to just ignore the...

So does what strangers do piss you off because you think that it is stupid or are you mad because you aren't included in these silly rituals?