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Thread: My NG Journal.
Started 1 month ago by BeGoodNotNice
I'm going to start writing down all my exercises and all my other observations here. It'll be a diary of sorts. About me. (this is a mix of what I think / used to think...reading NMMNG, I can feel myself changing...) Late 20's. Got off of a long relationship. Trying to figure out where it went wrong, and what I did. I was too nice, and did everything she said. Agreed with ...
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Hawkeye replied 1 month ago
Quote: Originally Posted by BeGoodNotNice I'm going to start writing down all my exercises and all my other observations here. It'll be a diary of sorts. Good stuff. Looks familiar. Quote: I think the main the thing I need to believe, as do most of the people on this forum, is that ...
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BeGoodNotNice replied 1 month ago
Here are a few threads I've written in that give a more full picture of my mindset...writing to these has been VERY helpful: http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forum...ad.php?t=17 137 http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forum...ad.php?t=17 208 http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forum...ad.php?t=17 053
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Hawkeye replied 1 month ago
Very cool.
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BeGoodNotNice replied 1 month ago
Entourage is a f'ing awesome show. Puts me in a good mood, and shows the way guys should act if they really don't care about what others think of them. Ari and Vinnie are awesome. You can just see the air of confidence they have. And it's not that they're perfect and don't have weaknesses, but the way they handle everything.
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BeGoodNotNice replied 1 month ago
I feel like I don't know how to have fun.
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BeGoodNotNice replied 1 month ago
It's okay to like praise. It's only when all we do is seek it, that we set ourselves up for pain and disappointment. What have we actually lost if we don't get it? And really. Do you see everyone around you praising everyone around them? That would get so annoying.
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BeGoodNotNice replied 4 weeks, 1 day ago
I think that one word that describes us all, the one that set me on this quest, that led me to NMMNG: accomodating. We're very accomodating. Dropping what we want for anything that anyone else asks of us. But I can't say I actually like being this accomodating.
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BeGoodNotNice replied 3 weeks, 6 days ago
I have trouble showing my anger. I always felt that it wasn't important to anyone that I was angry or upset. So why show it.
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Beagle replied 3 weeks, 5 days ago
Quote: Originally Posted by BeGoodNotNice I have trouble showing my anger. I always felt that it wasn't important to anyone that I was angry or upset. So why show it. It is uncanny how much your statements parallel mine. Thank you for posting them here. Often I see things in my own situation I wouldn't have ...
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Tomson replied 3 weeks, 5 days ago
Quote: Originally Posted by BeGoodNotNice I have trouble showing my anger. I always felt that it wasn't important to anyone that I was angry or upset. So why show it. I've always felt that anger exposed me. It draws attention to me and begs the question 'why are you angry?'. Being of little significance I would ...
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user's latest post:
My NG Journal.
Published (2009-11-23 09:01:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by BeGoodNotNice I think I grew up with the idea that entire world was looking at me funny, as if everyone out there somehow knew that there is something wrong with me. Which somewhat explains why I'm so afraid of women, or even people in general...I feel I have an uphill battle with everyone because I think they can somehow see a deep inner defect I have. I need to explore this toxic shame a bit more. Related to...
Hawkeye
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My NG Journal.
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Very cool.
Tomson
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My NG Journal.
Published (2009-11-23 21:28:00)
The toxic shame is really powerful and you can be deceived by getting on with people and even being relatively successful in relationships. But the nagging doubt is always there and surfaces in all kinds of irrational behaviour. There's no rationale for dealing with it, you've got to relive the pain from your past and grieve over the devastating influence its had. There is a logical reason why you feel like you do and its not...
Beagle
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My NG Journal.
Published (2009-11-13 18:01:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by BeGoodNotNice I have trouble showing my anger. I always felt that it wasn't important to anyone that I was angry or upset. So why show it. It is uncanny how much your statements parallel mine. Thank you for posting them here. Often I see things in my own situation I wouldn't have thought of otherwise.

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