Thread: Money or Life - which to choose?? Suggestions Please!!
Started 1 month, 2 weeks ago by MovingToMidEast
I am literally going crazy trying to decide. I have two potential offers.
One is in Abu Dhabi. Will be agressive work hours but will have a lot of fun as its Abu Dhabi.
The other is at Aramco in Saudi. Definite work life balance but less to do from an entertainment standpoint. Money is better in Saudi due to it being a hardship post.
Not sure if I should choose Saudi so I can pay ...
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Originally Posted by MovingToMidEast
I am literally going crazy trying to decide. I have two potential offers.
One is in Abu Dhabi. Will be agressive work hours but will have a lot of fun as its Abu Dhabi.
The other is at Aramco in Saudi. Definite work life balance but less to do from an entertainment standpoint. ...
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Originally Posted by MovingToMidEast
I am literally going crazy trying to decide. I have two potential offers.
One is in Abu Dhabi. Will be agressive work hours but will have a lot of fun as its Abu Dhabi.
The other is at Aramco in Saudi. Definite work life balance but less to do from an ...
I am thirty, single, and female. I realize that Aramco caters to families and I guess I am concerned being single there. The offer in AD is actually decent and will be able to save some but Saudi will obviously be easier to do so.
ahhh so difficult! i hate that money does talk as I want to tell it to shut up!
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Originally Posted by MovingToMidEast
oh and i do enjoy nightlife and things of that nature, thats why AD seems more appealing but argh money...
Aramco compound is not bad at all (more like a city), you can also head to Bahrain on weekend for R&R.
As you say it depends on what is more important, clearing your debt or going out on the piss. It is more than likely that even with a good package in Abu Dhabi that you will leave with more debt than you came with unless you can restrain yourself, which by the sounds of it might be difficult seeing as you enjoy going out etc. In KSA you will get more money and to be honest there are less ...
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Originally Posted by Emerald_Eyes
As you say it depends on what is more important, clearing your debt or going out on the piss. It is more than likely that even with a good package in Abu Dhabi that you will leave with more debt than you came with unless you can restrain yourself, which by the sounds of it ...
The point is how happy will you be with the weight of debt on your shoulders after a night out? Especially considering that if you lost your job and/or have debt here in the UAE that you can't pay off you could be put in jail until someone can find the funds to pay it off. It's definitely worth thinking about and maybe even reading a few of the debt threads on here to see how people who were ...
Although I wouldn't personally describe Abu Dhabi as much of a fun place (unlike Dubai), its certainly better than Saudi, which I would definitely NOT recommend for an unattached female. Just my two pennies worth, having lived in both the KSA and the UAE for over 3 years each.
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Originally Posted by MovingToMidEast
I am literally going crazy trying to decide. I have two potential offers.
One is in Abu Dhabi. Will be agressive work hours but will have a lot of fun as its Abu Dhabi.
The other is at Aramco in Saudi. Definite work life balance but less to do from an entertainment...
Quote: Originally Posted by Grace O Malley which bars are they then. Abu Dhabi 49ers. Great steak, good drink price. Beware turns to hooker bar after 9:30pm PJ O'Reilly's – C’mon Ms O’Malley, do I need to tell you where this is? Hero’s Bar – Crowne Plaza. Great food and atmosphere, standard drink price, wait staff that actually speak English (Irish that is) Dubai Spend 1,000 AED or get a bottle from A&E and order...
Quote: Originally Posted by Roadking Choose money and save for your old age when you are too old to enjoy life ...and need money to pay for medical care to keep a certain quality of life and dignity going right till the end... N.
The point is how happy will you be with the weight of debt on your shoulders after a night out? Especially considering that if you lost your job and/or have debt here in the UAE that you can't pay off you could be put in jail until someone can find the funds to pay it off. It's definitely worth thinking about and maybe even reading a few of the debt threads on here to see how people who were getting "good packages"...
Quote: Originally Posted by EmiratesMillhouse As for living in Saudi... for a single woman, this is a crazy idea. They are offering you lots of money as it's a shithole. What will you be doing in AD that will require crazy hours? The Aramco compound is not a bad place - certainly livable for a year or two to save cash up.
Quote: Originally Posted by MovingToMidEast yeah that is my main hesitation about living in Saudi: being a single female. As for AD not really being that fun, I am planning on living in Dubai and joining a car pool to work in AD. I have read my posts about how horrendous the commutes are as a result of the crazy drivers and so forth; however, am wiilling to do it as I have commuted pretty much my entire work career so i am used to it.. And in...
Hi Moving to Mideast It does get better after fw months living in Aramco , because you get to know more people and make new friends. Also You learn how to adjust to this kind of life. Whitch means, No driving outside camp, No malls or bars after work. The only way to socialise is in people s houses or in Bahrain on the week ends. But actually if you don t mind the traffic , you can go to Bahrain after work, have dinner and come back late...
Quote: Originally Posted by Norm_uk I'm with you on this critical issue There's no reason to spend AED40 on a bottle or glass of beer (unless the glass is 1litre and filled with hard to find beer). I also find that most of the bars which do charge so much are not very good anyway and have incompetant staff. Some of the best bars in the UAE are the ones off the tourist and poser rader, where the booze is reasonable and the staff...
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