Thread: Men/ women not wearing their wedding ring/band
Started 3 months, 1 week ago by Adry [10wks]
what are your thought on men or women not wearing their wedding bands when they are happily married?
Ex. My parents have been together for 20 something years, they finally got married spring of 2002. It was just a JOP wedding no reception or anything, my sister and I didnt even know they were married till months later. Either one of them dont wear their rings because they dont like wearing ...
I would be pissed if my dh didnt wear his ring and he would feel the same about me if I didn't. To us it's a symbol showing everyone that you're taken and were both poud to show off our rings
I can personally say I haven't wore mine since I was about three months pregnant. I was so swollen it didn't fit. I guess I just haven't put it back on.
Personally if my husband didn't wear his I wouldn't flip out.
ETA: We also had a ring less ceremony. ... did I spell that right?!
if you buy them then wear them. otherwise dont waste your money.
its a symbol to others to show that you're married without having to ask.
*the only time i take my ring off is when i'm cooking, taking a shower/bath, or washign dishes.
My husband rarely wears his, and I don't mind. He's in the Army and they are encouraged to not wear rings due to the potential for training accidents, and then he just doesn't bother/remember to put it on when he comes home. I wear mine all the time though--it's too pretty to sit on a shelf.
I think some people may do it to be scandalous (not wear a ring), but if there's a reason then I...
McBitchy {(is Pregnant!!) replied 3 months, 1 week ago
i personally NEVER take mine off. and when i have had to get them resized in the past, i wore a fake set i got a clairs. i feel naked if im not wearing anything on my ring finger. when my husband put my wedding ring on my hand and promised to love me forever and take me as his wife, it meant something to me. not that i think it doesnt to others, not saying that.
my DH tho has to sometimes ...
My husband doesn't wear his very often. He is in the Navy and it is slightly big on him and with his job any accident could injure him pretty badly with the ring so he keeps it locked up. And he just doesn't usually wear it outside of work out of habit. I wear mine all the time. I was furious when he first didn't wear it but I understand now, and he told me that once we get good rings and one ...
I got marriedon Halloween2005 and my husband had yet to buy me a ring I'm peeved about it. Especially since I have bought him 2!!
If both people don't want to wear it then no problem. If one has one and the other DOESN'T then THAT'S a problem! IMO.
We always have ours on.
Yes, they are just symbolic but we both get mad if the other isn't wearing it.
I think it's more of an "I'm taken" indication that we want to be known.
-shrugs-
Quoting It's "DILATE": I think it's kind of dumb to spend so much money on something one doesn't wear, and I like people to ... [snip!] ... your dickness, and find a bitch that doesn't care... not one with some sense of values that you have to hide it from..... grrr ohh and that guy you slept with you didnt know was married. Dont feel bad it wasnt your fault, like you said you didnt know. It was him who had...
Quoting Adry [10wks]: ohh and that guy you slept with you didnt know was married. Dont feel bad it wasnt your fault, like you said you didnt know. It was him who had no values or respect for his wife Yeah, I can't really blame myself, but I still feel like hell about that to this day...
We don't wear ours.. We only wore them the first year I think. I don't know, hubby's job post-military wouldn't allow him, and then my ring size changes so much with pregnancy, post pregnancy, second pregnancy etc, I dont want to fuck it up be resizing it over and over. I think like you do though, we don't need them to prove our love and it doesn't stop people from cheating. I actually think some women target men...
Quoting Adry [10wks]: Its nice to see people with them on I'm not a big jewelry person and I tend to lose things I ... [snip!] ... him and blah blah I dont think wife's should worry about slutty woman, its the Husband/ bf/ SO who has the power to say "no!" If a women is determined then a ring wont stop her.
Quoting Jezamortis [ES]TKD: That's not what I meant. I was saying that I bought him 2 and he wears one of them all the time but he NEVER BOUGHT ME ONE! So I have nothing to wear! THAT'S what is wrong! Umm sorry I wasn't quoting you...I accidentally clicked your quote instead of post reply.. Sorry
Quoting Jezamortis [ES]TKD: I got marriedon Halloween2005 and my husband had yet to buy me a ring I'm peeved about it. Especially ... [snip!] ... him 2!! If both people don't want to wear it then no problem. If one has one and the other DOESN'T then THAT'S a problem! IMO. Baha, that would look bad.
Quoting Crystal [EBFB]: I lost mine when I was pregnant. DH asked me "Where's your ring?" I told him it was in my jewelry box. Apparently I had put it in the hall closet? lol
my SO lost his, and we have not replace it. I have gained weight so my ring does not really fit comfortable so neither of us wear them. I was at first really upset, but not so much now.
i personally NEVER take mine off. and when i have had to get them resized in the past, i wore a fake set i got a clairs. i feel naked if im not wearing anything on my ring finger. when my husband put my wedding ring on my hand and promised to love me forever and take me as his wife, it meant something to me. not that i think it doesnt to others, not saying that. my DH tho has to sometimes take his off at work. he's in the navy and when...
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