Thread: Lurker...needs advice - Sexual Issues: Member to Member at WebMD

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice Catfish - the OP didn't say she was withholding sex, she said she wanted it less often. She also said that her partner was understanding and supportive. If he was unhappy with the situation he should have said so and not let her think the contrary. I'm sure if he had said he was unhappy that the OP would have made that effort you suggested. They're a couple. Couples are supposed to...

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice FCL I understand that the OP's boyfriend needed to communicate much more. I agree there, but I have to jump to Donna's defense a little here as I am indeed in my 2nd tri as we speak. My husband and I have a great marriage. He, like the men in this link, does not expect sex while i am pregnant. He constantly reminds me of this, and asks me if I'm sure every time. It's a little annoying...

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice How do I not take responsibility for my decisions, Mark? I've always taken responsibility for the decisions I make. However, we all know that we don't make the decisions we make unless there's a reason behind them. I've personally never made a decision without there being a reason behind the decision. I can't tell you why I didn't cheat on my ex-husband--he was afterall cheating...

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice Folks, you're confusing responsibility with blame. I hold myself and other people responsible for their own actions: a simple philosophy for a simple man. As for blame: there is enough of it to go around. I leave blame to God and small children. mark

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice dear allison_7908 When you ask him about it dont get all mad.Just try talking to him.You dont know the truth so dont set yourself up for hurt if you dont have to.My wife did that to me and we had alot of prombles after she did.I wasnt lookin for anyone to meet i was only looking for friends.Now we are better then every now that we talked about what was going on.So just talk to him and tell him how you feel.

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice In my personal experience, this bodes ill. But, you know him, so I can't pass a judgement. You absolutely HAVE to confront him. While he may be completely innocent, this behavior is unsettling.

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice Mark and Donna, I would agree with both of you. I think there is room in your arguments to agree with both. Tom

Replying to: Lurker...needs advice Regarding cheating, I feel that if two adults are in a marriage and one decides to cheat, they both share in the causes since both should be aware when there is a problem. I have had years to reflect on my ex's actions and can now see clearly that I should have been privy to just about all of the cheating but kept making excuses for her lack of caring for out relationship. I will admit that she...