Thread: Just how rare are unicorns?

Quote: Originally Posted by VegasLee Where most couples mess up is many don't understand that MOST of the single women in the Lifestyle are not looking to party with a couple, they are looking to party with the single guys and/or husbands that are allowed to play. Some are bi and are into the couple thing but not most. If the single women is not bi a couple really does not have anything to offer her that she can not get with a single guy...

Medium rare, warm and juicy on the inside.....

I could not bring myself to answer any of the questions in your poll since I did not feel any of them applied to something I would say. Over the years we have had many single women that hung out and partied with us even though we have NEVER gone looking for a single lady. Laura is not bi so as a couple we have no real need for a single women. We don't tend to party as a couple so yes, I ended up partying with the single women that hung...

Hi All, I could have sworn I answered to this...but maybe not...if I did and it was moved...sorry about that! Honestly, I had no idea I was "rarity"...really..but then, I too, ended up in many of my experiences, just "running into" playmates when not "looking"..so maybe I just don't have the resources to say? I know that now, as a single bi female...I keep getting feedback from local...

Quote: Originally Posted by lookingfornow In four years, we have met five single females who play regularly with others. Each introduction was by way of a common acquaintance with whom we had played. Based upon our experience, this is true. I will add my own personal observation. You do not find a unicorn; she finds you. ~Michael

I think our status on the poll is pretty well known by now :P.

Some recent talk about unicorns (aka single ladies in the lifestyle) has me curious about this. Of the 6 different people/couples we have played with as a couple, 3 of them were single women (2 couples, 1 single male and 3 "unicorns"). It wasn’t until I started reading this board that I realized that single women who like to play are considered really rare. So my question is, just how rare are they really (and my apologies...

I have wondered the same thing. We have never had a problem acquiring long term, (or short term) single, female playmates. We had no idea it was a rarity. If anything, I have had a hard time seeking the "single male" that we desired,..but recently think I may have found someone suitable. Maybe it`s just a unwritten law,..If you are hunting for it, it will vanish.

In four years, we have met five single females who play regularly with others. Each introduction was by way of a common acquaintance with whom we had played. While each of the ladies has a profile on one or another of the swinger type websites, four of the five admit to rarely responding to unsolicited e-mails (using the site merely as a tool for meeting people through other acquaintances). A disclaimer...we have never been unicorn hunters....

We've had a few FMFs over the years and all but one was with the female half of a couple. The one single female we've played with was a former co-worker of mine that we happened to run into at the gas station of all places. Although she is bi she would never consider herself a swinger or think about attending a swingers club. IMHO single females in the "swinging" world are pretty rare. I think you have a better...