Thread: It' Good To Be the Dumper Instead of Dumpee

Quote: Originally Posted by Boricua First, congrats to the OP for kicking that rock. I preferred the powdered stuff. I smoked it once, on my very last night of partying before I had that miraculous moment of clarity. Almost four years clean here, and it gets better day by day. I hope the same for you. Good for you. More money, sanity and way less lowlifes to deal with. Quitting a drug like that allows one to live an integreted life (I...

wow what a ride. hopefully you are getting off the crazy train for good this time.

Quote: Originally Posted by TophFletch But in the end it's so good to be the dumper instead of the dumpee. I think with in that relationship being the dumpee or the dumper would feel really good. Some people might think being the dumpee in such a relationship would actually be a better idea, as there won't be any possibility of her trying to find you.

"That she was staying at a halfway house with an tracking ankle bracelet which was required as part of the pre-trial release. " At what point does the "get out" alarm go off for you?

Dude, you kicked crack? That's like the hardest-core thing I've ever heard.

Top Fletch, Do you attend a drug-rehab/alcoholics support group? The fact that you're still attracted (and coming back) to such a girl is troubling (even if the relationship is completely finished right now). Most addictions have a social component to them. Whether it's with her, or with some other woman, you better get some higher standards for yourself. You deserve better. And you're bound to repeat the same patterns (with...

Quote: Originally Posted by FrOzhinS I think with in that relationship being the dumpee or the dumper would feel really good. Some people might think being the dumpee in such a relationship would actually be a better idea, as there won't be any possibility of her trying to find you. First, congrats to the OP for kicking that rock. I preferred the powdered stuff. I smoked it once, on my very last night of partying before I had that...