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Thread: Is it wrong to pray to be with someone when they love someone else?

Started 4 months, 2 weeks ago by Dane2
I love someone who is engaged to someone else. I have loved this person for a very long time, but never had a fair chance to be with her. Our families are very close and she considers me to be a very close friend. The first time I wanted to tell her I liked her was in 8th grade, and she started dating another boy before I had a chance to tell her. When they FINALLY broke up 4 years later we...
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devilious-red replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
You're verging on obsession. t I just know that she could learn to love me if we were just given one more chance. Doubtful. If she loved you the way you 'love' her, she would have made her feelings known. I really do love her, and I want her to be happy, but why does she get to be happy when I don't? Because life is unfair. Maybe you're coming on too strong with all the women you've ...

Wicciapardon replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Well, it's not a crime to love some one who is promised. Show her slowly that you really love her and know what she needs. I think that might give you the upper hand. -- 95% of teens would cry if they saw the Jonas Brothers at the top of a skyscraper about to jump. Copy and paste this your Sig if you are in the 5% that would shout 'Jump assholes (^____^)

GDStudios replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Loving someone you can never have is painful for anyone but it's not a crime. All you can do is hope for the best because if you truly care for them then you want their happiness above your own. Time will go on and you will move on, just move on with your life and you'll find someone who you will love. Still you will always care for that person and nothing is wrong with that as long as it ...

smf-forest replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
It's a shame that you haven't found anyone else that you like so far, but you still have lots of time. The majority of women in their early 20's are still more interested in having fun than looking for a serious life partner. Give it time. Also, the more you preoccupy yourself with your feelings toward this one girl, the more you shut out other potential lovers. I'm assuming that you two ...

Niallthecool replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Make yourself one more chance. Just tell her and get a straight answer and be done with it. -- [link]

Estherrulez replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Please, man up. Pray won't bring you what you want, only you can do something... "Help yourself, and the skies will help you " , they say. How does she know about your love for her, do you just guess that she guessed, or have you actually confessed ? It's soon will be too late, she's getting hitched. You know this girl for years, you shall know when to stricke, tell her how you feel, tell her...

TheShroudedOne91 replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Part of praying is not just pleading with God to make things go your way - it's about telling him what's in your heart and trusting Him with the rest. Things might not work out your way, but you can be assured that it'll work out the way it's meant to. Stop listening to the desperation in your own head; try to think clearly and objectively. I know, it sounds much easier than it actually ...

TheTriggulator replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Says the girl who left a guy because he wouldn't fuck her. -- Sing about hurting yourself? You've got an emo! Sing about how nobody understands/loves you? You've got an emo! ~ Aapis And now my faith in mankind is dead.

TheTriggulator replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
so much oh my God -- Sing about hurting yourself? You've got an emo! Sing about how nobody understands/loves you? You've got an emo! ~ Aapis And now my faith in mankind is dead.

TheTriggulator replied 4 months, 2 weeks ago
-- Sing about hurting yourself? You've got an emo! Sing about how nobody understands/loves you? You've got an emo! ~ Aapis And now my faith in mankind is dead.

 

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TheTriggulator
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user's latest post:
Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-16 11:54:00)
Oh so he did end up fucking you cool -- Sing about hurting yourself? You've got an emo! Sing about how nobody understands/loves you? You've got an emo! ~ Aapis And now my faith in mankind is dead.
Wicciapardon
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-15 19:54:00)
Well, it's not a crime to love some one who is promised. Show her slowly that you really love her and know what she needs. I think that might give you the upper hand. -- 95% of teens would cry if they saw the Jonas Brothers at the top of a skyscraper about to jump. Copy and paste this your Sig if you are in the 5% that would shout 'Jump assholes (^____^)
Nintendude1
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-16 05:54:00)
It would probably be best to accept what has happened and try your best to move one. Easier said than done though, I know, but you owe to yourself to find someone else, someone else that you can be happy with! Don't give up hope, there's a ton of opportunities in life, don't let this unfortunate situation stray you from them! -- ~Originality will lead you to new worlds~
Dane2
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-15 18:54:00)
I love someone who is engaged to someone else. I have loved this person for a very long time, but never had a fair chance to be with her. Our families are very close and she considers me to be a very close friend. The first time I wanted to tell her I liked her was in 8th grade, and she started dating another boy before I had a chance to tell her. When they FINALLY broke up 4 years later we were both out of school and in college, and she...
Armonah
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-16 13:10:00)
You really need to move on. You're fighting a losing battle here, against yourself (I know, logically speaking this doesn't make sense). This girl you love (and I agree with = devilious-red that it starts to look more like an obsession) isn't only taken, she's made long-term plans to commit herself. The moment she says "I do" she will expect that commitment to last until death do them part. If...
devilious-red
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-15 19:54:00)
You're verging on obsession. t I just know that she could learn to love me if we were just given one more chance. Doubtful. If she loved you the way you 'love' her, she would have made her feelings known. I really do love her, and I want her to be happy, but why does she get to be happy when I don't? Because life is unfair. Maybe you're coming on too strong with all the women you've dated....
DragonSlaveII
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-16 13:24:00)
There is no crime in this prayer, since betrothal is not customarily the same as married in this country. Biblical times, among the Jews, yes, this would be a big problem. But don't expect him to answer yes. Why don't you start adding to the prayers: "I know this is a selfish prayer, but please help me to find a mor appropriate prayer--one that you can answer in my favor on." Pray that one for a while, then see...
ILoveBigCats
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-16 13:26:00)
Pray all you want, hun, it won't get you anywhere. -- No doubt you knew me back then , but it all comes back to me in the end .
GDStudios
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-15 19:54:00)
Loving someone you can never have is painful for anyone but it's not a crime. All you can do is hope for the best because if you truly care for them then you want their happiness above your own. Time will go on and you will move on, just move on with your life and you'll find someone who you will love. Still you will always care for that person and nothing is wrong with that as long as it doesn't stop you from...
diablong-buang
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Is it wrong to pray to be with...
Published (2009-08-16 13:48:00)
It's not wrong, but perhaps the person isn't right for you either. Sounds like you have to let it go. Sorry dude. -- No matter where we go you are the one who I betray, while wanting to protect Only in the present, in the past, in the future Do I have to compensate It's better if I disappear if only to save you -- Kannazuki no Miko -- "We know why you rubberneck..."

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