Thread: If you could fix one relationship that was broken by drugs...

Easy....my best friend that OD'd in my house and died on my couch (while I was performing CPR on him while paramedics were on the way). Kinda started my spiral into oblivion. Had known that guy since grade school, no one knew me better. I will forever miss him. RIP Miles Travis W 1983-2004.

Which would it be? Why and how would you have changed things? It can be a relationship with anyone. Bf, Gf, parent, sibling, friend, aunt, uncle it doesn't matter! The idea of this thread is to kind of "remind" you of what not to do again. I would pick my last GF. I got way into meth and became very controlling/verbally abusive. She was my first love and I treated her like garbage. I will always miss the great times we...

this might not count... but id say my relationship with school. i really wish i was more present in my last year of university.

Most drug users that I stopped chilling with, I don't really care about. They weren't exactly the nicest people. There where a couple of people I pushed away cause they would not tolerate my drug use, they weren't close friends though. I guess the relationship I fucked up most is with Uni. I had like 4.0 in HS, for some reason I stopped caring when I moved to uni. But I hate everything about the place where my uni is located...

I'd want nothing more than to have had a real relationship with my parents. I got heavy into crack use/dealing when I was 14 and after getting arrested for Possesion with intent to distribute (crack) our relationship went to shit. They didn't kick me out but there's been a mutual complete lack of trust, faith, and love for eachother. When I moved out to go to college, after working hard to get my life on track, they...

i'de fix my friendship with my now ex best mate. She stuck with me through some horrible stuff, the friendship went from us supporting each other, but me being happy and treating her right, looking after her to her visiting me in psych wards numerous times with problems ranging from mild months of psychosis and also her sticking by me after a little harie karie attemt which i will never forgive myself 100% for putting her through....

Thats a hard question. I really don't have a idea if ive broken off relationships because of drugs and alcohol or just my sometimes volatile personality. Im the type of person that if i don't like you you will know about it pretty fast. Faster if im drunk and coked up. I just havent gotten along with alot of people ive met in my life and it's not because ive hated them it's just that ive always had a different set of...

Quote: Originally Posted by paranoid android I will be the first to admit that i was a complete fucking psychotic jackass during my alcoholic years. And I will be the second. I've made my amends where appropriate and done my best to let go of the rest. Coming out of the darkness with alcoholism has really made me realize who my true friends are, and that I have more of them than I thought I did, who like me just as I am. I have said...

I hesitate to say I would "fix" this relationship- or to say I wish it would have been different b/c I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't be where I am today........ But the relationship that bothers me MOST would be that with my mother. I first learned of coke (by finding it) at 10 and first experienced a contact high at 11 after turning my mother down when she offered me pot. (But then rolled the windows...

I was a raging alcoholic for a couple years, with little regard to people or their feelings...I was just out for myself. Well, I hooked up with one of my best friends gf (she was also an incredibly good friend to me), anyways things spiraled out of control now they completely hate my guts. They were a couple of the best friends I've ever had, and I still love them. Thankfully LSD cured my alcoholism. Another thing that happened was I was...