When I was a Couple, we used to swing about once a month, but we'd meet
prospective intimates whenever was mutually convenient, just to test
compatibility & attraction. That was for drinks, dinner, dancing, visiting,
etc.; about once a week. If there was a spontaneous acceptance by all of
us, we would "hop-to" immediately; but usually, getting together required
scheduling by both couples. Singles...
We have no schedule in our swinging. A lot depends on our schedule of
life-like job, family, other obligations. Swinging for us is not on a
schedule-like we swing Saturdays at a club-and then don't swing again till
the next club time.
Swinging depends on the Couples we meet-and how that goes-we like to get to
know them-and they us-and when the swinging happens-the sex is tremendous.
So-no ...
Ever since we started our show it seems like we have been playing nearly
every week!
Allie is currently under the weather so we'll be taking a break for a
while. Once every couple of months was our old frequency meter. Not
counting our trip to Desire, then it was like every day!
John and Allie
We seem to be in the same "boat" as a lot of you. With kids, Work, Life in
general and other financial obligations, we don't seem to get out and party
as much as we used to. Until a few months ago we were partying about twice
a month, IF my work schedule premitted. But we've just purchased a new home
and have been spending every spare moment remodeling it. So, for the last 3
months we haven't ...
Not near enough. An old Pennsy dutch saying comes to mind. "Too soon old,
too late smart". If only we had gotten into the lifestyle when we were
younger before the kids. To answer the question it seems once every six
months or so.. We would like it at least once a month.
I more or less enjoy hanging out there. As for the swing part, i have a few
couples that i would like to get to know better and have not made the move.
I have had oral performed on me and have given, but that is about all. I
have not made a move because my fiance is'nt sure one day if this is the
couple for us and then he's like lets ask them, so we are between couples
that we both can agree on.
Just moved, but I'm hoping for at least once a month... found a new
playmate out here who is cute as a button and thinks we're just awesome.
Before I moved I had a regular partner that I saw 2-3 times a week... much
to my exhaustion...
The sad truth be told, not ofetn at all!
When my wife and I were dating and even when we were first married, we met
others about a few times per month. Mostly by association through events,
social connections, etc.... We never did frequent swing clubs or house
parties or the like.
Unfortunately, due to "kids and careers", she slowly reverted back to her
conservative Catholic upbring and ...
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Originally Posted by Bambi
How many times a month you guys swing? Does anyone swing without their partner? If so does the other partner know this?
We get play time, on average, about once a month. To amplify "on average", seems like a dry spell will set in for several months. Then we'll meet several different ...
Re: How often do you swing? We're try to go to a party once a month, but we haven't done that for the last 2 months. I suppose it's because we both have so much on our plates at the moment. __________________ "Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all." Helen Keller
Re: How often do you swing? My wife and I open for a season of playtime a couple times a year. It's normally in the fall and winter. We're very religious and so in the spring and summer we get pretty busy. Within the past month I've met up with a high school crush and invited her over while my wife was out of town on business on two occasions. She and I have had some very nice sex within the past three weeks. Last Saturday...
Re: How often do you swing? Our play varies by our schedule and what is going on socially in our life as well as what parties we are invited to and our various LS friends' schedules. Some months we have partied 4 or 5 evenings in that month where others we had 1 or less encounters. And not really sure how to count a house party where one has the opportunity to play with more than partner in an evening.
Just moved, but I'm hoping for at least once a month... found a new playmate out here who is cute as a button and thinks we're just awesome. Before I moved I had a regular partner that I saw 2-3 times a week... much to my exhaustion...
The sad truth be told, not ofetn at all! When my wife and I were dating and even when we were first married, we met others about a few times per month. Mostly by association through events, social connections, etc.... We never did frequent swing clubs or house parties or the like. Unfortunately, due to "kids and careers", she slowly reverted back to her conservative Catholic upbring and everything eventually came to a halt. I think...
Wow, and seeing my wife in the fraternity in her thirty's was just a one time fantasy. She enjoyed every one she was with and the guys were more than accomodating! Great arrangement you have!
Our play time is simply guided by my travels and Mrs. CXXC's schedule. We can go from playing several times in one month to not play at all for months. However, that is as a couple. As we both have regular solo play mates, we do play solo on average of once a month.
Quote: Originally Posted by Bambi How many times a month you guys swing? Does anyone swing without their partner? If so does the other partner know this? We get play time, on average, about once a month. To amplify "on average", seems like a dry spell will set in for several months. Then we'll meet several different couples within a month. Not intentional. Just a matter of scheduling and availability. Neither of us...
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