Thread: Gotta Date

Quote: Originally Posted by decades You know it seems to me that if the christian thing was a deal breaker, wouldn't you, if you were her, screen for that before you even meet someone? I just think she comes across as a needy flake. My commentary is general in nature and just there for others who are in first date situations. you seem to be doing well here perhaps a bit passive in letting her go on and on without asserting your...

You know it seems to me that if the christian thing was a deal breaker, wouldn't you, if you were her, screen for that before you even meet someone? I just think she comes across as a needy flake. My commentary is general in nature and just there for others who are in first date situations. you seem to be doing well here perhaps a bit passive in letting her go on and on without asserting your personality. I really think she likes you and...

Quote: Originally Posted by decades You know it seems to me that if the christian thing was a deal breaker, wouldn't you, if you were her, screen for that before you even meet someone? I just think she comes across as a needy flake. My commentary is general in nature and just there for others who are in first date situations. you seem to be doing well here perhaps a bit passive in letting her go on and on without asserting your...

Quote: Originally Posted by Moun10dew Anyway I felt good about tonight and a few minutes after I got into the car she texted me that she had a great time and wanted to meet again...and to say she was sorry for talking so much. haha. . Kudos for taking the lead and ending the date. Her texting you and asking to meet again obviously is a good sign, and the brief but fun date left her intrigued for more... Keep us posted

awesome, let us know how it goes!

Well...I think it went well. I'm sure a lot of you might disagree but I still came away feeling pretty confident even if some things didn't happen. We met at a coffee shop. Since it was a first date and since I have to be up pretty early tomorrow to go out of town I had to keep it very simple. I would have done more had I had the time. I'm just glad that I asked her out right away and didn't beat around the bush getting to...

Quote: Originally Posted by Moun10dew I woke up about 3 and had this strange urge to turn on my cell phone. Maybe God was urging you to turn on your cell phone.

It's not that complicated. She wants to date other Christians. I don't waste my time with religious women.

Wow. You must be awesome to be dumped by God. I mean, imagine the pull you have on her to the point where God intervenes and tells her to back off. My opinion, it's just a stupid ploy on her part. Tell her to come over to your house for dinner and make her reject you outright, not by God.

It's not that complicated. She wants to date other Christians. I don't waste my time with religious women.