Hi All,
Honestly, I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this post, I think a couple could fit.But, am a "single", and want to "swing" again, so we'll give it a go Anyway, I actually started coming back here, b/c it's the right time in my life to begin contmeplating my next move, back into the lifestyle. Synchronicity being what it is, I happened to have a conversation with a friend, ...
I don't think you'd be inviting trouble at all, but be prepared for a lot of attention. The wit, forthrightness, intelligence and graciousness that you've demonstrated here will easily get you through most anything you'll encounter at a good club (as long as you're not in Miami).
I say go on your own and check it out. You have past experience to compare it too and you can tell if it's still someplace you'd enjoy. After you do so talk to your friends and see if they'd be interested in going then make the introduction needed to get them approved.
Jump in with both feet headfirst!
Based on what you've written and how you present yourself, I think you'll have no problems. Bringing your couple friends would be a really nice thing to do and give you folks you can talk to and hang with if the action isn't something that interests you. The best way to regain confidence is to get back into it. It won't take long to get comfortable ...
Karmic,
A good club will have good security and they usually have host couples who will show you around the new club and let you get comfortable. Needless to say, you will be popular, but at the clubs that we have been to, when there were single ladies there, the couples were very respectful. We went to a club with a lady friend of our once. When I walked in the door with my two ladies on ...
Hi All,
Thanks so much for the feedback! It feels so nice to get the positive comments, I'm humbled by it. I'm glad that I'm at least hopefully being able to express myself in the way I'm striving for.
I think this weekend I'm going to give it a shot.....one of my car tires needs replacing, but I'm sure it could at least make the trip, it's one of those things where a bunch of ...
Oh, hi, ncmd_couple,
I didn't even think about that, or put it together. It feels like they've become bigger, and having two different locals, there probably will be some host couples, that would definately be a plus. I recall when I used to go when they were small, that there were people, that did notice me alone, and made me feel comfortable, so good point! Thanks for adding it in....Best,...
Karmic,
The majority of the folks at the club will be nice also. Yes, there will be a few jerks, but you have the power and the power is "no thanks" and if they persist, the club staff will deal with it.
S
Hi All,
It's been an interesting couple of days for me. I did end up checking into that site that was recommended by the people from the club I used to go to, like forever ago. It actually was something I felt good about, b/c of the correlation between the two. I know it was a classy, fun place who took care with good atmosphere, and people. So, I put together a profile, and have no idea ...
Hi ncmd_cuople,
Oh, that's funny..I was just thinking I wanted to add some stuff, thanks for asking about it I was just thinking today, that wow...it is interesting what happens even if you're very specific about what you are looking for. Real quickly, it has been an overall positive experience, thus far...I still have a feeling about a couple, and made tentative plans to have dinner next ...
Hi ncmd_cuople, Oh, that's funny..I was just thinking I wanted to add some stuff, thanks for asking about it I was just thinking today, that wow...it is interesting what happens even if you're very specific about what you are looking for. Real quickly, it has been an overall positive experience, thus far...I still have a feeling about a couple, and made tentative plans to have dinner next Sunday, in an area I feel super comfortable...
I say go on your own and check it out. You have past experience to compare it too and you can tell if it's still someplace you'd enjoy. After you do so talk to your friends and see if they'd be interested in going then make the introduction needed to get them approved.
I don't think you'd be inviting trouble at all, but be prepared for a lot of attention. The wit, forthrightness, intelligence and graciousness that you've demonstrated here will easily get you through most anything you'll encounter at a good club (as long as you're not in Miami).
Jump in with both feet headfirst! Based on what you've written and how you present yourself, I think you'll have no problems. Bringing your couple friends would be a really nice thing to do and give you folks you can talk to and hang with if the action isn't something that interests you. The best way to regain confidence is to get back into it. It won't take long to get comfortable again.
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