Thread: Figure Competition Dilemma...Husband Misunderstanding

Quote: Originally Posted by LilRed03 i just laughed. uncontrollably. Today's mission is complete. Quote: Originally Posted by Bonifacius what is your solution to the issued described in the other thread ? Just grin and bear it ? There are way too many wimps in this country. Personally I'd be more pissed at my parents for allowing this than my lunatic sister. Isn't the OP 19? Maybe he should move out of mommy and daddy's if...

Quote: Originally Posted by Bonifacius what is your solution to the issued described in the other thread ? Just grin and bear it ? There are way too many wimps in this country. There are plenty of goverment agencies to contact. She is also doing alot of illegal activities. Violence only causes more violence.

Quote: Originally Posted by Bonifacius Some people just aren't comfortable with change, ever thought of that ?? It pisses me off how you throw the word insecure around. Everyone is uncomfortable with change to some degree. It's basic human nature. Generally speaking, people who are more secure in who they are and their own self worth deal with it better. Just because one person isn't comfortable with change doesn't mean it...

Quote: Originally Posted by erinlee01 I wouldn't say it is obviously affecting him. Why is he complaining about it? Only he knows. It could be that it's affecting him, but based on my experience, I can't see how it would affect him to the point of complaining about it. It could be that he is afraid of what he doesn't understand. It could be that he is insecure and sees her wanting to improve her physique as a threat to his...

So no response from OP hope her husband didnt ban her from using the computer... so i still have a crush on the Dr. here...too bad I cant follow through on that thoughts.

Quote: Originally Posted by RebeccaG At what age does one learn that getting your hair cut a certain way is the key to a long-lasting marriage? I'd like to be prepared for that life lesson. Well, I never said that getting your hair cut is the key to a long lasting marriage. I did imply that accommodating your spouse as best you can will contribute to a long lasting marriage. Moving that from an intellectual exercise to everyday living...

Quote: Originally Posted by Bonifacius what is your solution to the issued described in the other thread ? Just grin and bear it ? There are way too many wimps in this country. the law allows for only one response... If the brother truly feels his life is in danger then he should call the cops...simple as that. Let the DA's office figure the rest out.

Quote: Originally Posted by Bonifacius Ok you win. He should allow her to do whatever he wants, compete, have sex with other men etc WHATEVER she wants with complete disregard for their marriage. We're talking about her competing and nothing else. You throw in a comment about her having sex with other men. This just shows how insecure/jealous you really are...

Quote: Originally Posted by Bluelinersgirl My parents have been married for 32 years and I've been married to my husband for 4 years, yeah A WHOLE 4 YEARS! There is a lot to be said for learning from experience! I don't like your bus scenario, how about this: You love Africa, your favorite TV show all your life is about living in Africa, you read books about Africa, you're an African studies major in college, you know A LOT...

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