Thread: Emotional & logistical problems of an open marriage - Page 30 - The Swingers Board

Quote: Originally Posted by azaria_lyn Wow, I just read your playtime agreement and it almost brought tears to my eyes! This could be adapted for ANY type of relationship where each person is committed to loving the other and helping them grow. I'm going to share it with my fiance....I think it's a great "contract" to read together Please, for the love of Jebus, read the thread.

Quote: Originally Posted by azaria_lyn Wow, I just read your playtime agreement and it almost brought tears to my eyes! This could be adapted for ANY type of relationship where each person is committed to loving the other and helping them grow. I'm going to share it with my fiance....I think it's a great "contract" to read together As said, read the whole thread. Believe me, that agreement brings tears to my eyes...

Quote: Originally Posted by Chicup Please, for the love of Jebus, read the thread. AMEN!

Re: Emotional & logistical problems of an open marriage Hmmm.... Quite edifying story.... __________________ 'I believe that sex is a beautiful thing between two people. Between five, it's fantastic.' W Allen

Quote: Originally Posted by WannabeSif I was not emotionally equipped to handle it. FINALLY - a factual statement in this thread...! Suggestion - delete the bookmark to this board and never look at it again, and by all means, quit coming back. Seriously - if it pisses you off that much, why do you keep coming back to read it? Delete your profile, eliminate the bookmark to this site from your web browser, then forget this place even exists. I...

In this scenario, whether real or imagined , it is more than obvious to everyone reading that there were problems with it. What the supposed "incident" was in fact, was a cuckholding in progress rather than a "swing experience". (and not a swing-related cuckholding for those who want to say that is part of the LS) The wife in this drama has taken advantage of the opportunity to cheat on her husband in...

I'm speechless. You're tired of seeing our opinion to a situation that YOU WANTED, DEFENDED and RECIEVED, all against our advice? The IRONY being said advice was soliticed by YOU ??? (read: you as a couple--you both did post here correct??) Talk about Bullshit Your condescending tone really really pissed me off--How about taking some responsibility for your actions?? motherofgod my head hurts ............Think of the bunny

I don't particularly care if we were trolled or not. To me, the effect is the same. I'm not going to exert any more energy on these people. They've routinely ignored advice and are responsible for getting themselves in the situation they are in. To cap it off, they are now in a place in their relationship where they need professional help. The advice and aid of even the best intentioned posters here can not match that of a...

I just read this entire thread. Epic. Reminds me of another forum I post at where a lot of personal advice is often asked, and ignored. Here's what's often posted to summarize it, and always makes me laugh: OP: "Help! HELP! I'm stuck in a well!!!" posters1-4: "Climb! Climb up and take our hands!" OP: "I'm thinking I should dig... should I dig?" poster5: "NO! I...

The only thing I have left to say on this: This is the perfect post to send all newbies to. Anyone considering swinging that is still "curious", "trying to convince a partner", etc. Because this will absolutely enlighten a lot of folks that are considering similar situations. I hope many can learn from this catastrophe, and realize that this is NOT swinging.