Thread: Elective C-section

I gotcha, no worries. For the record it's not my intention to make anyone feel bad.

Hun. Its fine. You choose what you wangt for YOUR baby dont let anyone elses opinion sway you xx

You are right, I really didnt mean to start a debate about which option is better as I have nothing against natural birth - it just scares me and I have decided to go with section and was just wondering if other people felt this way too.

Quote: Originally Posted by Aidan's Mummy Right Us as mother I think should have the right to choose how their baby comes into the world (unles that choice is taken out of our hands) We carry these children for 9 months WE do all the work and I think as a mother preparing to bring a child a miracle into the world you should have a choice Personally the thought of a c-setion terrified me but so did the natural birth I went for a natural...

Quote: Originally Posted by Racheltn Quote: Originally Posted by MiissMuffet Quote: Originally Posted by Racheltn I'm terrified of C-sections..and pray I don't have to have one...Honestly from what i'm told..C-sections hurt worst than Vaginal birth..you gotta remember..that's major surgery..which comes complications..And then the healing process is alot longer, sometimes after c-sections you arn't even able to hold...

I also agree with angeljewle xx

Quote: Originally Posted by MiissMuffet Quote: Originally Posted by Racheltn I'm terrified of C-sections..and pray I don't have to have one...Honestly from what i'm told..C-sections hurt worst than Vaginal birth..you gotta remember..that's major surgery..which comes complications..And then the healing process is alot longer, sometimes after c-sections you arn't even able to hold your little one due to the pain, or...

I think subjects like this are very hard to say whats on your min without someone taking it the wrong way, as it may not read as its supposed to if you know what I mean.....I have had major surgery in that area before so I do know that it can be very painful and how long it take to heal, not something I would like to have go through after having a baby......But again thats just me and how I feel about it, but if I needed to have one cause...

I really want a c-section becasue i have a hole in my heart and i am really scared of what will happen if i try natural. But i am still waiting for my results and i have to go and see more people and get there oppinion of what they think is best. There is going to be pain ether way but it will eb all worth is becasue you get a baby from it xxx

To be honest, I'm scared of both, c-section and natural, lol. But I want to go natural, unless of course there are complications and I have no choice. But, people shouldn't be telling you what you should and shouldn't do. I think that's ultimately up to you. After all, it's your baby, and it's you going through it, not them! There's always people giving advice, I know it's hard to ignore it, I get...