Thread: Bad premature ejaculation problem

Hi, I post this here at this forum because I consider the source of this problem to be primarily psychological. My story: I am 22 and had only had a few sexual encounters before I met my current girlfriend. I had had sex with a couple of girls, and each time had no problem lasting a decent while - in fact i was consistantly suprised by how long and unstimulated actual intercourse felt (despite being very aroused). One time I couldnt even cum....

Problems that we have sexually are often the result of both definitions and preconceptions as well as treating the activity as a performing art. For example, you are spending a great deal of time measuring time periods and basing your enjoyment upon fulfilling some preconceived criteria. Thus, rather than enjoying the relationship and the sexual activity, you are ever vigilent for whether it is going "right",...