Thread: BW and BM Failing Relationships

If I'm in a failing relationship with a black man. I'd end that relationship and seek another, with a black man.  Just because you have or had failing relationships with black men, shouldn't deter you not to keep trying until you're in one that works for you. All women are afraid of loosing a relationship and venturing into a new one. ...

So you're insinuating that a)Most black men are no good and can't maintain a relationship and that B)IR dating is the answer? you are wrong on both accounts. Men are Men, believe me! All of them cheat, can be no good etc.

my question is just a general inquiry about some black women and their relationship choices.

I've seen some BW scared to date IR. I think personally I prefer someone around my color when dating IR(as in Indian or Arab or Brown Latino) I just feel more comfortable! In NY where there's lots of other minorities I noticed other BW were even uncomfortable dating IR with them. I think BW need to be more OPEN, I kinda agree with you. However...

What are some black women afraid of?  Why do so many stay when they know it's no good? i have been asking bw these questions for the longest. simply put why are we stuck on stupid.   i live in cali and i see more bm with other races of women than bm/bw together.  bw love to play the "STAND BY YOUR MAN BS" & LONG SUFFERING WOUNDED...

Because women these days be sprung off the penis too much. So they are willing to put up the failing relationships. Women need to learn how to seperate the two, love and sex. Thank God I stepped out my failing relationships and took a chance with somebody who really cares about me. I date a white man and he treats me so good. ...

Hmmm... I don't blame some wm for not wanting black children. However, I do know some that do and want to marry black women first before doing it.

There is a Blk women's empowerment Movement going on, listen to the videos. There are lots of bloggers and they no longer want to accept Blk males who don't measure up. They look at the high stats, crimes rates, Blk men really havent helped Blk women and children in the last 60 years. Lots of women are talking to each other to "...