Thread: Are mens lives complete with out a woman? Free Dating, Singles and
Personals
Started 1 month, 3 weeks ago by hunnibelle
I have met a few men dureing my time of being single and it seems to me that a lot of them have made so much more of their lives than I have since being on my own. Obviously there will be a lot of women who have done the same. But I find it difficult to know what to offer these fella's...normally working hard dureing the week, they already have their bachelor pad, they have their friends (male...
I do know what you mean but and yes am one of those woman who has her own house all paid for. good job have friends to go out with the only thing to offer is yourself which should be enough. bloody true about the hanky panky my god didnt know men could be so sex mad. my ex never bothered.
I believe their lives are more full because they don't live with their children. Their evenings are free to suit themselves, whereas single mothers with children need to cope with their needs, and of course there is more housework they have to do.
Yes...... Women are smelly and annoying, And they pick their noses. So we only date Women when we want to get depressed after having way too much fun tripping the light fantastic. Sometimes i miss having the regular company of one, but not nearly enough to put up with the nose picking for too long (although you can get used to the smell after a while)
Of course !!! If you liken it to having a car.....you dont NEED one but now and again they come in handy and have their uses.......but only now and again!
I was young when I started my long term relationship, so I didn’t do a lot of things in my 20s that would be considered the norm. Boys holidays, a lot of nights out and in general the things that young guys do. I now find that i will be doing some of these things now albeit a few years later than I planned. There are things that have changed me and i will probably be a bit more selfish about ...
i'm a single fella, never been married, but have had a fair few girlfriends down the years and apart from a couple of occasions when i was tempted to think about the whole settling down scenario, i have found that unless you really find that 'one in a thousand' relationship that really ticks all the boxes why give up a life of doing exactly what i want to do, exactlywhen i want to do it? ...
I was young when I started my long term relationship, so I didn’t do a lot of things in my 20s that would be considered the norm. I did the same, I was 19 when I met my partner, we were in college together, my 20's were spent working 60-70 hour weeks trying to get a business off the ground. I never did any of the things my counterparts were doing. Now, having found myself single again at 35...
when i split up with my ex fiance..i decided id like to stay single for a little while and have my own independence..that was about 27 years ago..and im still enjoying my freedom and care free lifestyle..it aint too bad..i like it anyway...
I have met a few men dureing my time of being single and it seems to me that a lot of them have made so much more of their lives than I have since being on my own. Obviously there will be a lot of women who have done the same. But I find it difficult to know what to offer these fella's...normally working hard dureing the week, they already have their bachelor pad, they have their friends (male...
If the want FWB then they sound like not the sort you looking for anyways. Tick no intimate encounters on your mail page, should get shot of them - Happy fishing
well when you have children its not always that easy to make time especially if they are young and I wouldnt want that , I ended a relationship because of it kids come first always, so its very difficult and I get that totally. I am not that selfish to demand time thats not available as it were... so I think men do need women in their life but just find it difficult in any particualar situation. were as most women who are divorced or single...
I believe their lives are more full because they don't live with their children. Personally I did live with one of my kids for a while - and when that ended it left a huge hole in my life and I missed his wit and slobbishness and little teen strops and the big hugs. I suspect a lot of guys would prefer to be with their kids. In spite of two court orders, and a lot of perseverance, (including the involvement of my MSP with a school...
as a guy of 39 yrs of age i would happily admit to being a guy not necessarily looking for a long term relationship. without wishing to be bigheaded about it i don't have a massive problem getting dates (hence my just being strictly a forum user at the min), and many people tell me that i am a 'young 39', both in looks and demeanour and i will readily admit to still wanting to 'have a little fun' before i think of...
can you ladies blame me, and guys like me, for not always wanting to jump into relationships like the ones i have stereotyped here? So every 'chick' has 2 or 3 kids, no money and an alcoholic ex? Wow, I must have misplaced mine. H.x
Its been really interesting reading peoples views on this subject because I was begining to think it was only me who saw it this way. It seems its more prevelant in the 45+ age group which surprise surprise is the age group that I am interested in! I regard myself as a pretty good catch...single, own home, own car, kids pretty much grown up, no ex hassle, plenty of time to spare, loveing, careing, fun loveing AND still very sexuel but still...
I would like to know when you think that might possibly be? Because as time passes and the years roll on the few available women will become even fewer. Lets hope so...... Actually Hunni, you reminded me of something.......And what i say is by no means set in stone as exactly what has happened to leave you feeling like this. But i do know of at least one case and i'm sure there are many more.... I have a Female friend, very appealing on...
For lots of us it's not that we need a woman in our lives, but would like one. Most of us have mastered ironing and washing and cooking and cleaning - and men who went away to college or were in the forces will be able to fend for themselves. The only things I am totally crap at is pastry and sewing. On the latter I can usually get a girlie friend to do it - because if they want curtain poles putting up or their car sorted I'll help...
I do think we all need someone in our lifes at some point in time, living alone makes you think that yes you dont need someone and maybe their scared to admit that they do need us.
I thought that everyone were more or less at the same place when you hit 30+. Male or female you are going to be more settled, own home, social life, friends, hobbies, life! Aren't you? I wish I was…time to start again!
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