Thread: Are key parties just a farce?

Quote: Originally Posted by CXXC Perhaps the definition of SWINGER should be defined as: One who has sex with another regardless of social history or attraction. Perhaps the LIFESTYLE could be better defined as: Individuals who must find an attraction and a social basis before engaging in sexual congress with likeminded individuals. What do you think? I think you are doing just what we are talking about. Over thinking and nit picking it to...

Quote: Originally Posted by lovenestduo Nothing wrong in having standards. There should always be some form of attraction. If you require some form of friendship before hopping into bed with someone, that's ok too. You're in the non-key party category. We're not "hard core" by any means. In fact, we prefer to have friends with benefits. We don't, however, have to establish a relationship first in order to...

Lee said it well... For hells sakes, its ONLY sex. I'm not looking for a date, a boyfriend or a husband. I have a husband, and believe me, nobody can take his place. We've only been swinging for about 3 and half years. Not nearly as long as some, but we're in it strictly for the variety of sex. We don't want to be best friends first, we just wanna have sex . We've had many couples contact us that have this NEED to be...

Re: Are key parties just a farce? Someone should throw one. Infact, I'm going to see what I can do with friends I have in Germany. Let ya know how that one turns out.

Another thought on this. In the swinging histories I have read, modern swinging started with military officers during WWII and the "key parties" were attributed to that era. You have to keep in mind that the couples involved were already very close due to the stress of combat and the very real possibility that any of them may not come home from the next mission. The wives were as closely bonded as the men in this. So their...

Quote: Originally Posted by Sunswept I am sure this was the big attraction at the parties I mentioned above, they had a glass mixing bowl by the ice machine on the 2nd floor with a hand scribbled card taped to it that said: "We dare you!" The keys had paper tags that said "M" or "F" Do you think the discovery HIV/Aids, had an influence ? I think I can understand when VegasLee says, It was...

Quote: Originally Posted by lovenestduo Key parties aren't for the first group. They're not about 'winning' the most attractive person or 'losing' and having to go with the least attractive. It's the excitement of getting out of your comfort zone and taking risks. It's socializing with someone you might never would have. It's sex for fun, no deeper meaning, no therapy if it wasn't perfect....

Quote: Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple HILARIOUS TOYOTA COMMERCIAL Video I thought it would fit in here. Just a short vid. Awesome commercial I was thinking about the whole fish bowl thing. You know those pots you see in various tourist traps with labels like "Ashes of dead husbands", "Fishing fund", etc.? A new one..."Bowl for key parties"

Quote: Originally Posted by socolais The excitement would be in the unpredictableness of the draw. I am sure this was the big attraction at the parties I mentioned above, they had a glass mixing bowl by the ice machine on the 2nd floor with a hand scribbled card taped to it that said: "We dare you!" The keys had paper tags that said "M" or "F"

Maybe there needs to be an official Swingers Board key party to put any questions to rest once and for all and ensure that there has, in fact, been at least one fully documented occurance