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Have a wonderful boyfriend, well until a few days ago. He has always beenreal sweet, and loving. We've been together for a few months, and all ofthe sudden, he has been acting real distant. I mean real distant. He workslate sometimes, I understand that part. So I look forward to spenging timewith him at night and on the weekends. Here over the past week or so, ourtime has been less and less. He ...

Red flags all over the place. It doesn't sound very good. The last time aguy acted that way with me was because he didn't want to be with meanymore. I am not saying this is the case with you, but all the indicatorswould point that direction. Maybe he's got other things on his mind, Idon't know. Eventually whatever it is, it will come out. Maybe it's timefor a heart-to-heart honesty talk.

Coming from a mans point of view and dealing with a similar situationwithin my own actions, chances are he is not wanting to be with youanymore, if like me, it's hard to just come out and say it, eventually hemay or may not, if this is the case you need to talk to him and let himknow regardless of the outcome, you want the truth, it's not fair beingstrung along if there's nothing there.

Quote: Originally Posted by susieq0726 Red flags all over the place. It doesn't sound very good. The last time a guy acted that way with me was because he didn't want to be with me anymore. I am not saying this is the case with you, but all the indicators would point that direction. Maybe he's got other things on his mind, I don't know. Eventually whatever it is, it will come out. Maybe it's time...

Quote: He was supposed to come to my apartment to spend the night with me, he didn't show up. And didnt call this morning.There is NO excuse (outside of an emergency) for someone to tell theirgf/bf they are coming over, and then stand them up and not even call. Noexcuse. Someone who cares about you is not going to be that disrespectfuland careless of your feelings.Either he met someone else, ...

Thanks Steve. I am going to try and talk to him one more time about it. I'ma little hesitant because I dont want to feel like I am giving him anultimatum (sp) but I can't help feeling that if he is going to continue toact like this, we need to call it quits now.

I have to agree with susieq and steve. Let me also add that if reasonablecommunication with him is this difficult now, imagine it in a year or two.You two should still be in the honeymoon stage at this point. It's notlooking very promising.

Quote: Originally Posted by GypsyArcher There is NO excuse (outside of an emergency) for someone to tell their gf/bf they are coming over, and then stand them up and not even call. No excuse. Someone who cares about you is not going to be that disrespectful and careless of your feelings.Either he met someone else, already had a girlfriend or wife before he met you, or is going out and being up to...

Quote: Originally Posted by GypsyArcher There is NO excuse (outside of an emergency) for someone to tell their gf/bf they are coming over, and then stand them up and not even call. No excuse. Someone who cares about you is not going to be that disrespectful and careless of your feelings.Well said Gypsy! Even if he has problems weighing on his mind, there's noexcuse for the disrespect he's showing...

Does that explain away everything that's been different about him lately?