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I would be quite hurt to find out that my boyfriend masturbates to porn. To me, fantasy and masturbation is one thing. Even erotic literature wouldn't bother me because it is stories and involves the imagination. But staring at the naked body of another woman that actually exists in real life while getting off, that would feel to me like a betrayal.

I know im in the wrong forum, but as a guy i can tell you that yes he looks at porn, but to him it means nothing. At least hes honest to you about it instead of lying. And while he may look at naked girls on the comp but he doesnt remember them 5 minutes after hes finished and your still the one he thinks about all the time

yay for being out of place. Most guys watch porn, it gets you horny and makes it easier to wank. It's not like we get a social attachment. I don't think it should be a let down my girl even watches porn with me sometimes but we usually end up laughing at it.

Tell him how you feel... you have to be open with them..so they know what they do wrong and can try to fix. but then again you have to respect his choices and what he wants to do but i see where you are coming from..

Its different if a couple is using it together. I personally wouldn't like it, simply because they are using someone else to satisfy their sex drive. And guys, if you know you aren't supposed to be in here, don't break the rules to do so

Quote: Originally Posted by Divine® Its different if a couple is using it together. Exactly. If I'm were to watch porn WITH my boyfriend it would be something we were using as a couple for the purpose of sexual stimulation. That's entirely different than one person using it on their own, in my opinion.

I know this was a question for the girls as Rachel said but... are you all saying that once a guy gets a girlfriend he loses his right to look at porn? I know you guys already said it's like betrayal because hes getting off by looking at some other women but why do we do it? Because we're guys and it wouldn't be very fair to ask your girl to fuck you every time you're feeling horny.

Quote: Originally Posted by Tentative I know this was a question for the girls as Rachel said but... are you all saying that once a guy gets a girlfriend he loses his right to look at porn? I know you guys already said it's like betrayal because hes getting off by looking at some other women but why do we do it? Because we're guys and...

Quote: Originally Posted by Lost~Fairy We're not saying that guys lose the 'right' to look at porn when they get a girlfriend, because some girls are fine with their boyfriends looking at porn. However if a girl was hurt by her boyfriend watching and masturbating to porn, the boyfriend (if he loved/cared/respected her) would probably ...

Quote: Originally Posted by Tentative I know this was a question for the girls as Rachel said but... are you all saying that once a guy gets a girlfriend he loses his right to look at porn? I know you guys already said it's like betrayal because hes getting off by looking at some other women but why do we do it? Because we're guys and...