F/U on house: So irritated (LONG) | Thread profile

So we are "this close" to losing it! I cannot even deal. I asked for an extension on my closing date since I was out for pretty much 3 weeks, due to my gma's illness and death. EVERYDAY I get a call asking if we have the mortgage yet. EVERYDAY I tell them, I need more time, I was not able to provide all my paperwork to the mortgage guy until last week. Well, according to the original contract, we...

oh, and the fact that I have tried calling the lawyer, the mortgage man, and FI and I can't get a hold of any of them is driving me BATTY! Ita...siempre en mi corazon. R.I.P 6.21.08 -----Marv and I at Marni's wedding " Sin's Bio - Updated 4/25/08 " " Knottie How To ? Compliments of JaimeBeth9 "

So sorry Sin.... remember what I told you on AIM about how you & I might handle things like this differently than most? Anyway, it still sucks! I hope they come around, you have been through enough!

wait, you still haven't been approved? Crack is Whacked!

AND now I DID speak to FI and we are fighting. Ita...siempre en mi corazon. R.I.P 6.21.08 -----Marv and I at Marni's wedding " Sin's Bio - Updated 4/25/08 " " Knottie How To ? Compliments of JaimeBeth9 "

Best thing i can say after working in the mortgage business is leave every message for your mortgage guy and tell him that the deal is about to be dead. Mortgage guys are hurting for business right now so he should do all in his power to get that document even if its conditional. Tell him to get you something! Venue, Photog, DJ, Florist, Dress, Wedding Bands, Hotel Room...

Erika, there were some complications with our mortgage, which means we had to jump through a few hurdles. Despite that, we were still going to be able to get the mortgage by the original date, which was today. But since I was OUT OF THE COUNTRY (sorry, but these ppl don't seem to get that fact and it PISSES me OFF!!!) I couldn't get everything done till last week, and basically its a fukcing ...

Okay, deep breath. Repeat as necessary. I'm sorry they are being a-holes. That's really not cool and so unnecessary. BUT, try not to fight with FI about it b/c that will only make the situation worse. Perhaps leave urgent messages with the person who is processing your paperwork?? Maybe explain the situation, tell him/her that they are not going to give you an extension and see if ...

sorry to hear all of this sin! is your mortgage guy close to your office? maybe you or marvin colud stop by during lunch? Crack is Whacked!

I know. The fight with Marvin is stupid. Whatever, he needs to cool his jets before speaking to me again because I'll rip him a new one if he calls back still angry. He just got mad bc he told me to make all these calls and I said, "YOU can't do anything?!" and he JUST stepped out of a meeting and hasn't had a chance to process. We are both just emotional and upset right now I guess. Whatevs, ...