Woud you Settle for "Only" a Handjob?? | Thread profile

Quote: Originally Posted by JustAskJulie what I'm pictureing in that situation is the poor guy just sitting there getting whacked off, not getting anything else. awww....how terrible

Quote: Originally Posted by JoeCentralNY ...But from a few of the responses, I wonder if they're really swingers or just "internet armchair swingers" (AKA pud-wackers) Whose "responses" are you referring to? LM

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If their boundaries aren't compatible with what you're interested in doing, I'd say pass. Plenty of other fish in the sea. =)

In looking at your other posts I get the feeling you think your wife may capitulate to the point of giving some dude a hand job just to get you off her back or at some point she has let slip out that she may be willing to do that and now you are wondering if you should take the ball and run with it. To give an honest answer to your question it all depends on the context under which that handjob were to occur. Lets swich things around a little...

what's the point of even going? I've never been excited about hand jobs. I've maybe had 2 in my life. a) I can do it better. b) I feel like I'm in high school (even then I got more than hand jobs) Sure this is shallow and doesn't take other things into considerations but in terms of pure sexual pleasure which seems to be your question, it sure wouldn't be worth it for me.

Quote: Originally Posted by JoeCentralNY You make a point, Iapr. Yes, I'm able to discern between the two. But from a few of the responses, I wonder if they're really swingers or just "internet armchair swingers" (AKA pud-wackers) I think they are just confused by your vague post, I had to go back and read your previous posts regarding your wife in order to put your question into context. To answer your question,...

Male half here. I find handjobs to be pretty exciting. Perhaps some couples just getting into the lifestyle are not comfortable with anything more than that at the present time. I'd be open to just that, and I think the wife would enjoy seeing that also.

Quite honestly when I read it as you put it in the post here, I would say "nope, wouldn't be interested". Because what I'm pictureing in that situation is the poor guy just sitting there getting whacked off, not getting anything else. Guy or girl same thing. If I'm with a couple as a female and ALL I'm getting is a finger in my pussy then I'm not getting enough. There's a lot more too it...

Quote: Originally Posted by sweet_tna If their boundaries aren't compatible with what you're interested in doing, I'd say pass. Plenty of other fish in the sea. =) Well said and that about sums it up