The leading up to and setting the mood | Thread profile

I guess that is the way I shouls have wrote it up G&S. I was talking more of how do you set the mood when a couple is coming over to your place. Thanks for clearing up my thought.

Re: The leading up to and setting the mood Quote: Originally Posted by Tia Vampire How do the rest of you like to get things started? By getting naked __________________ Billy & Elaine I see naked people.....

Re: The leading up to and setting the mood We like candel's,a few drink's,low light's,and of course naked bodie's

Re: The leading up to and setting the mood We've done the music, candles, and a sexy board game to to get things started, and that worked just fine--especially if the other couple are newbies. But we've tried Biloxi's method to, and it works just as well! =) __________________ "I used to be Snow White, but I drifted." (Mae West)

I say that physical attraction is 70% of sex. So to get started you have to be turned on. So let nature and pheromoans take there course. I mean the lubricant of sex is relaxation. You can't really force sex to happen by leaveing out the toys and turning down the lights. That can be a real problem so simply let nature take its course.

We actually don't play at home but I agree with what BiloxiCouple said we get to the hotel and strip that pretty much does it.

How to get things started is a problem we have had. Last time we, who tend towards shyness, were with another shy couple and nobody got it started. We had a very nice vertical time which was still fun but .... The next time we have decided that if the meeting has clear expectation of playing (which it did) we are not waiting for the other couple to make a move. If we sense a stalemate developing we will just make a move or ask outright if...

It depend on the circumstances prior to the arrival of our guests. If we've already been out to dinner or dancing with them, then the clothes are coming off as soon as we get home. However, if the night starts out at our place, then we do our best to set the mood with drinks, snacks, music and fun conversation. We have a lot of candles at home, but we've never tried using them as playtime mood-setters. Perhaps we'll give that a...

We don't play at home but at the hotel... nekkid Twister is usually a hit! Ms B

Re: The leading up to and setting the mood By the time we get back to our house we are already into the mood. So it is pretty much walk in and get naked usually for us. __________________ R (He is R, she is P) Our SLS profile