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user's latest post:
think I am going mad - anyone...
Published (2009-11-10 22:43:00)
Re: think I am going mad - anyone else had this? It's like we are keeping an online journal with comments/advice given. It's really helpful. Glad you are feeling better.
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the broken heart and the super glue
Published (2009-11-10 09:21:00)
Re: the broken heart and the super glue GB.. Her H has issues with being a NG. They tend to be some what oblivious to reality.. I understand not to pressure to stay for kids but some people have no clue what they are doing in reality..
user's latest post:
The REAL world - Page 47
Published (2009-11-10 21:52:00)
Re: The REAL world CW, your forcefulness might be the straw that breaks his back and make him take that long look at himself. He definitely was taken aback by the date. You are in control of this now and he doesn't like it. __________________ Kindness, Caring, Love and Understanding for Me, for Her and my son. Well not so much for Her anymore.
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Hi...and could use some advice
Published (2009-11-10 11:33:00)
Stop doing all the extras. Continue to be friendly and kind. But stop working so hard, stop with the flowers, the dinners etc. And when she asks you what is wrong - just say "I don't feel loved." And then say as little as possible until she starts making more effort. Right now she just sees you as half roommate and half cook/housekeeper. Only one way to change that - stop acting like it. Quote: Originally Posted by...
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She's talking to a...
Published (2009-11-10 18:25:00)
Re: She's talking to a lawyer...what should I do? G&B I think quite a few folk want to get out without hurting the other party - and also think that friendship is the natural progression after divorce ...hmmmm you sound sure that she is sure - but you also think that you may have found the 'magic key'. The truth is that if she doesn't want to give it a go no magic key is going to work - (you know this in your...
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A hint "Stay away" or...
Published (2009-11-10 18:11:00)
And another thing... Quote: Originally Posted by FromNeptune Your suggestion would result in her asking me why I am sleeping in the other bed so I would need some kind of response. You just don't get it do you? You don't need her permission. A man makes a decision and takes his actions. You inform her. You don't ask. And if she is interested to know why, you tell her the whole truth without holding back. Don't let her talk...
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Newly married (yay) Ex Back in...
Published (2009-11-10 18:28:00)
They are ex's for a reason ! ... hope he realizes that and does not cause grief in your marriage over some petty issue like that where an ex is trying to be his fake friend.. and waste his time. She borrowed one of his cars? ohhhhhhhhhhhhh man............. thats not right. Is she even on the insurance? I smell trouble, sorry to say but something fishy going on if he lent her a car ! Can't she find someone else to bother and mooch...
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depressed: WHY HE WONT love me
Published (2009-11-09 20:14:00)
yeah today he was upset with the new me. well i will keep persisting
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She's talking to a...
Published (2009-11-10 21:59:00)
Re: She's talking to a lawyer...what should I do? thanks CW. She's detached....but without any anger or bitterness. That suggests that she is moving on to me. There is still a scant hope.....though I can't cling to it. This IS SO UNNECESSARY. I've got to move forward to protect myself. If would have had the resources I have now even three months ago we would be in good shape....I really believe that.
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Started 21 hours, 53 minutes ago (2009-11-11 10:33:00)
by WarmFront
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Originally Posted by scarletblue
Well, when we got there, we started hearing all these stories she was telling about me. The one that really stands out is that she was saying that I went on a 4 day binder and she had to take care of my kids. There is not an essence of truth to that!!!!! I was so mad and betrayed by that. My ...
Started 22 hours, 5 minutes ago (2009-11-11 10:21:00)
by D8zed
Hmmm, interesting. Where did you suggest she go to have them taken? Do you know the H/W team that took them? How was it arranged?
Started 1 day, 22 hours ago (2009-11-10 10:09:00)
by scarletblue
WOW! There are a lot of similiarities in your marriage and my first marriage.
Only you know if there is anything left there to salvage or if you are done.
If you want to work it out, then give him a chance and work on it.
If you're done, take steps to get yourself and kids ready.
Scrimp money away and look into the legal documents you'll need to protect yourself and your ...
Started 1 day, 14 hours ago (2009-11-10 18:16:00)
by Initfortheduration
She feels stuck with her second choice. YOU. I would file immediately. She doesn't quite believe that you will divorce her. Also. shut down her access to your money. And cancel her CCs. She needs a slap to the consciousness to realize that ANY contact is a deal breaker.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-03 20:56:00)
by MEM11363
Is she committed to trying to make things better? If so, what is it she is doing to show her commitment?
You are in a tough spot. Being too nice to a woman comes across as weak, and women don't have sex with weak men.
Is she able to be really clear about what she wants from you?
How about what you want from her? Because if this is only going to be about what she wants,...
Started 1 day, 15 hours ago (2009-11-10 16:59:00)
by gabejoel
Has she given you reasons for mistrust? Or is this something new? To me you have to talk it out and tell her how this is making you feel.If she loves you she will respect your feelings.Finding out if it is the truth or not would probably be hard to do, unless you are willing to call the friend and talk to him .I know it is hard to have doubt and i hope you are to work through it. good luck
Started 1 day, 6 hours ago (2009-11-11 01:42:00)
by recent_cloud
you have no relationship
you have 2 people pinging one another
he's playing you
big time
and you know it
Started 22 hours, 26 minutes ago (2009-11-11 10:00:00)
by scarletblue
I wouldn't bring it up if I were you. Don't call her, don't text her. She would have texted you if she was anxious to see you.
Of course, some women have a rule about not calling or persuing men.
I would wait until the next time you see her in person. Depending on the situation, I would try to bring up in a joking manner how she stood you up. Then the ball is in her court and she will ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-04 10:57:00)
by AZMOMOFTWO
Why did you post here? Did you want to get a rise out of people? You are offensive. What do you want people to say sure be the OW. Go find some place else. There are people going through pain here that doesn't need to here this B.S.!
By the way your story is crap.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-03 11:14:00)
by Loving Husband
Well you laid it out to her. You are not going to accept your marriage this way and that is great. If she is holding back why?? If she is that shallow nothing you will do will ever be good enough. 1 person can not run a marriage and if she's not going to tell you what your doing wrong or what she needs then seperation is a start. I don't think a lawyer yet. You still love her. Give her an ...
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Hot threads for last week on Talk About Marriage - The Marriage and Relationship Forums.:
Started 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2009-09-20 16:52:00)
by Atholk
I think for the majority of men, their first and best hope at lasting happiness is with their first wife. Tragic that they have to cause chaos all around them to learn a lesson too late.
Started 3 weeks, 6 days ago (2009-10-15 10:31:00)
by knortoh
at a low moment my mum told me
you are in control of you
she's hasn't read any self-help books it was pure life experience talking - it has stayed with me
Started 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2009-08-19 15:37:00)
by Flutterby
It is good that you are trying to be supportive. Given the entire story, I would recommend giving him his space. You should focus on your own healing.
Started 6 days, 1 hour ago (2009-11-06 06:28:00)
by mommy22
You're not the only one who gets it. I've stated my own opinion on the matter time and time again, yet I think it comes off as prudish. I, too, have become more vocal on my opinions of these types of behaviors. Unfortuately, those who strike out in defense may eventually wake up in a nightmare wondering what happened to their marriage. I've seen what can and does happen in MOST cases. ...
Started 1 week, 4 days ago (2009-10-31 18:13:00)
by noideato20
i want to tell him because i think it would be fair for him to say yes im sleeping with this other girl thats why i dont want to hug you or tell you i luv you anymore instead of all that crap he told me
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Started 4 months, 4 weeks ago (2009-06-16 15:05:00)
by humpty dumpty
oh and yes Trev has the biggest smile ever !!!!
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-03 10:55:00)
by Help239
I am already a few weeks ahead of your situation. My wife simply charged it. You cannot change her mind if she is set on this. I didn't even know mine was in contact with a lawyer until she had me served with papers.
My suggestion would be to calmly ask her what she wants and go from there. If you try to convince her to do something else, it will seem like you are trying to manipulate ...
Started 2 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-09 15:19:00)
by cats101
Is this childish?
Recently, I had an agrument with my boyfriend. I was very hurt by certain things he said to me. I told him that I was very upset and told him not to call me the next day. I said that I was still going to be upset and needed a day to myself. I usually get like this when I get very upset. I feel like I need to stay ...
Started 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2009-09-21 09:55:00)
by Corpuswife
You are working to some sort of acceptance. Teetering on it in fact. This crap that we've been going through is all consuming.
There was a point where I'd feel lucky to have a few minutes where I didn't think about him and our marriage. Going over and over things. Insignificant things at one point in my life...things that I would have never recognized in my "other" life.
Try ...
Started 1 day, 3 hours ago (2009-11-11 05:11:00)
by katie jane
do you not see that although you may not have feelings for this other woman you are involved in a emotional affair with her .. why have you got her phone number anyway and why the hell didnt you stop after the first time ?
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