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user's latest post:
Discovered My Wife's...
Published (2009-11-26 01:53:00)
I'm reluctant to come onto these forums and say "Get a divorce" to anyone. But I'll say "Get a lawyer" because it worked for me.
user's latest post:
think I am going mad - anyone...
Published (2009-11-26 23:34:00)
He's sending me photos of the boys - it is freaking doing my head in - what is this what we share now ? I can't even open them
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My New Beginning - Page 33
Published (2009-11-26 08:08:00)
Let me give you an example of an issue my wife had during this process. It was one of a savings account I started. I opened up about a year ago so we could have an x-mas or vacation money available to do things with. She had no problems. I put money every paycheck away in there. Anything extra I got went in there like Income tax returns. Well during her angry months she kept coming back on my with that money. Saying that account is in your...
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After 18 years of marriage -...
Published (2009-11-26 15:07:00)
I'm sorry that this is happening. It's difficult to love someone and not have your needs met. She may have a low libido or take alot of warming up to get to the point of sex. With the amount of reproductive problems and UTI's this is difficult for her as well. I'd imagine that she may have a fear of intercourse at this point. Fear of pain and fear of being dissapointed that there is no preganancy. Her lack of affection and...
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When to know to let go... - Page 13
Published (2009-11-26 22:34:00)
He's not trying K, he truly loves those gifts. But I bet he loves more seeing the smile on your face when he is smiling. Just a hunch, but I betcha.
user's latest post:
Sven's story and introduction
Published (2009-11-19 16:22:00)
He claims to love his wife and children more than anything in the world and wants to make this work. Sorry. I don't buy it. He hasn't forgiven and I don't see love in his response toward his wife. I see revenge. I see a guy who feels he can demand anything because he was wronged. I personally think he's full of it. He should just divorce now and stop pretending to love her. Or honestly, she should dump him. It isn't...
user's latest post:
My New Beginning - Page 33
Published (2009-11-25 08:48:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Loving Husband Our minds tend to make things worse then they are. Sort of parronoid. That is very true. I do this ALL the time. And while my H (and possibly your W FA) is more than likely doing some of the stuff I imagine him to be doing....it doesn't help at all to think about it and your mind will always imagine the worst. Whenever I think about how my H told me back in October he had a physical and...
user's latest post:
Discovered My Wife's...
Published (2009-11-26 01:45:00)
Caught women always have a huge wailing show of remorse and try and cozy back up to their husbands if the other man isn't going to automatically take them. The reason is that if a woman is divorced for essentially being a cheat, then if word of that gets out, she is going to have a very hard time finding another man remotely near the quality of her husband to be with. For a very very long time. It's all a strategy on her part I...
user's latest post:
Need advice and perspective. -...
Published (2009-11-26 22:57:00)
Hey, I have balls. Plus I weigh 145 and am fit. I know you were generalizing, but that is not the issue here. She was always attracted to losers before she married me. Not patting myself on the back here. Just that everyone she dated before treated her like crap and she let me know it. Now that she decides I'm not paying her the right type of attention, she goes back to.....you guessed it, mr. bad boy. A guy with 50k in civil judgements...
user's latest post:
She's talking to a...
Published (2009-11-25 20:08:00)
CW- I have learned a lot from your posts. Maybe that's why it sounds familiar:-) This is a great place. You have given me strength to fight the good fight and strive to expect nothing in return. Seriously. Thanks for sharing your trials with us. You never know just how someone else's spirits can be lifted by such a simple act of sharing. There are good people on here. Solid advice from those with 1st hand experience. Wisdom abounds!...
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Started 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-11-11 04:24:00)
by luvhatemyhubby
Men and their Sports
Why are men so addicted to sports? My hubby has downloaded a sports radio called Sports in Air( iTunes Store ) on MY iPhone. He lost his iPhone and uses up credit on mine by playing stupid games like Alpha Shooter( iTunes Store ) and listening to news(only sports). GRRRRR!
I have tried telling him, shouting...
Started 1 day ago (2009-11-27 18:40:00)
by beninneedofhelp
I no its long but i wanted to fill it all in with as much as i could tell you all so you had a solid grasp of what is going on.. again sorry its long and sorry i have to even post here right now. but im in need of help and advise and suggestions on this with such grave concern its killing me and i am dieing to be near my kids again all day every day..
please give it some real thoughts please i ...
Started 2 months, 1 week ago (2009-09-20 16:52:00)
by Atholk
I think for the majority of men, their first and best hope at lasting happiness is with their first wife. Tragic that they have to cause chaos all around them to learn a lesson too late.
Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2009-10-21 16:07:00)
by dobo
Re: When to know to let go...
He's changed? How about getting a job and holding it for a period of time?
Started 1 day, 1 hour ago (2009-11-27 17:55:00)
by Cooper
I guess your hubby found out fantasy isn't all it's cracked up to be. He didn't leave you and your child because he didn't want to be married anymore, he left to be with another woman. Yes? Isn't that where he went? Just look at the facts.
You can't get past it because he still isn't being honest, and he may never be. He and this woman had this fantasy that life together would be better ...
Started 2 weeks, 2 days ago (2009-11-12 12:59:00)
by MarkTwain
Don't do it trev! Join my ahem... monastery instead. It's a lot safer and we don't allow the harem girls, I mean nuns, to carry sharp objects
Humpty need not worry, you'll be in "safe hands".
Started 2 weeks ago (2009-11-14 14:31:00)
by MarkTwain
danl-
Hello and welcome
Assuming your wife is not having an affair... (and she sounds too busy for that) -
Your wife is running on empty. And although you were an idiot for not supporting her over her mother's cancer, it's all in the past. That may have been when some of the rot set in, but really, you should not blame yourself too much. She sounds like she is on the verge of a ...
Started 4 days, 9 hours ago (2009-11-24 09:38:00)
by nice777guy
Separation the Right Thing?
My wife is proposing an informal separation to keep us from fighting. She thinks if we spend some time apart, it will allow us to cool off. We will continue to see a counselor at least bi-weekly, if not weekly. She is looking at small apartments and would spend most of her time with the kids at our ...
Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2009-10-20 10:29:00)
by Help239
My wife served me with divorce papers a week ago. We've had arguments in the past about money and family but I never thought she would want to end our marriage. We have young children.
I am confused and do not know what to do. This honestly came as a shock to me. I would've thought she would've at least given me a chance to address her concerns before going through with the paperwork. ...
Started 4 days, 8 hours ago (2009-11-24 10:38:00)
by Harvard
Has GOD helped your marriage?
I am Catholic and have always believed in spirituality playing a big part of the decisions we make in my life. So does my wife especially recently. I must say in my opinion this has helped a great deal.
Not everyone agrees there is a GOD or that GOD has anything to do with the choices we make everyday...
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Hot threads for last week on Talk About Marriage - The Marriage and Relationship Forums.:
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-19 15:51:00)
by dobo
Are you sure you are not punishing her for making herself attractive for the other guy and not you, by witholding sex? Personally, despite what she's done and how her weight has grown, I think you are wrong to withold sex from her. You elected to stay married. People don't get married to not have sex.
Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2009-10-20 10:29:00)
by Help239
My wife served me with divorce papers a week ago. We've had arguments in the past about money and family but I never thought she would want to end our marriage. We have young children.
I am confused and do not know what to do. This honestly came as a shock to me. I would've thought she would've at least given me a chance to address her concerns before going through with the paperwork. ...
Started 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2009-10-15 10:31:00)
by knortoh
at a low moment my mum told me
you are in control of you
she's hasn't read any self-help books it was pure life experience talking - it has stayed with me
Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2009-10-21 16:07:00)
by dobo
Re: When to know to let go...
He's changed? How about getting a job and holding it for a period of time?
Started 4 days, 20 hours ago (2009-11-23 23:04:00)
by jessi
Hi,
I'm sorry your husband has taken this approach, he is still not ready to totally forgive you for stepping outside the marriage.
Have you told him how you are feeling because of his actions? Maybe you push him a little and tell him that if he can't forgive you then maybe it's not going to work between the two of you. Or I suppose you might need to understand that because of your situation...
Started 2 months, 1 week ago (2009-09-20 16:52:00)
by Atholk
I think for the majority of men, their first and best hope at lasting happiness is with their first wife. Tragic that they have to cause chaos all around them to learn a lesson too late.
Started 2 weeks ago (2009-11-14 14:31:00)
by MarkTwain
danl-
Hello and welcome
Assuming your wife is not having an affair... (and she sounds too busy for that) -
Your wife is running on empty. And although you were an idiot for not supporting her over her mother's cancer, it's all in the past. That may have been when some of the rot set in, but really, you should not blame yourself too much. She sounds like she is on the verge of a ...
Started 3 weeks, 4 days ago (2009-11-03 10:55:00)
by Help239
I am already a few weeks ahead of your situation. My wife simply charged it. You cannot change her mind if she is set on this. I didn't even know mine was in contact with a lawyer until she had me served with papers.
My suggestion would be to calmly ask her what she wants and go from there. If you try to convince her to do something else, it will seem like you are trying to manipulate ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-21 02:14:00)
by preso
Quote:
Originally Posted by wherewegofromhere
: My H and I have been married for five years. Within those five years we've lost a stillborn and three miscarriages.
Am I being selfish? What can I do?
Sounds to me... like you have some serious depression
and what you might think about doing is getting into a ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-21 05:55:00)
by Jane Smith
NO, you dont want to hate him. That makes it so UGLY. It is really unfortunate that you BOTH let it get to this. But its not YOUR FAULT. It takes two to tango, and the both of you together were negligent to your marriage. However, you are very fortunate that you can remain friends, for your sake and for the kids. Just think about it this way. You never wanted to have sex with him abyway, ...
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