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user's latest post:
Wife's emotional affair -...
Published (2009-11-08 16:34:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by decades actually I don't think this is an "emotional" affair. That's a term concocted by women. This is straight up devaluing him by her. It's like he's not even there. The guy hangs around with them? He's still contacting her? This is just him being a passive NG letting her get away with anything she wants with NO consequences. The problem isn't the other guy....
user's latest post:
paying for dinner
Published (2009-11-07 03:44:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Beagle How about making statements like "I"ll get this one. You get the next one." Then, if they don't reciprocate, it's time to get other friends. well, i was planning on paying for dinner and then having her pay for whatever we did after. i'm a little leary about doing the alternating thing in the event she's looking at it as a one and done. i once went out to dinner...
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Life purposes, goals,..., and...
Published (2009-11-08 13:28:00)
I've read a couple of selected chapters in Your Life As Art by Robert Frist. It's like a kinder, gentler version of Frist's Creating. What you'd expect from a gentleman as he gets older. Of course the classic is The Path Of Least Resistance. But I get a key concept now. Here's a couple of examples: I like to dance. Is that an intrinsic thing with me? Kind of. What I really like is music, athleticsm, and expressing...
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Gotta Date - Page 2 - No More...
Published (2009-11-08 17:28:00)
You know it seems to me that if the christian thing was a deal breaker, wouldn't you, if you were her, screen for that before you even meet someone? I just think she comes across as a needy flake. My commentary is general in nature and just there for others who are in first date situations. you seem to be doing well here perhaps a bit passive in letting her go on and on without asserting your personality. I really think she likes you and...
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TV Shows, Movies ..etc that show...
Published (2009-11-08 17:50:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Jackson7777 Aragorn is kind of a bitch. He gets all upset over one girl. And he truly wants her but tells her to sail away to elf land because he can't deal with the guilt he'd feel if she stayed, or he doesn't have the confidence in himself to allow her to give up her people to stay with him. He thinks she will regret her decision and resent him for it. This is my take on it. Who knows what the...
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paying for dinner
Published (2009-11-07 10:03:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by GeorgeWSmith anyone have any comments on this? Actually on you second post you had it right. You took her to a place she could not afford, and she was embarrassed to split, because I believe she could not pay. I don't know about her financial situation, but I remember I asked you a similar question a while back.... and that I felt somehow manipulated. I learned quite a bit from that, so now these are my rules...
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TV Shows, Movies ..etc that show...
Published (2009-11-08 17:09:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by MountainMan My father. One time some guy at a gas station tried to rob him. He was in the middle of pumping gas. He doused the robber in gasoline and stuck his lighter up to him. About that time the crooks friends decided to try to get out of the car. Dad told them that if their feet hit the pavement he was going to strike the flame on their friend. And he would have. And they all knew it to. The confidence he...
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Ex-girlfriend crap. Get this...
Published (2009-11-06 19:59:00)
I"ve never heard it described like that, but I just got through dating one of those. Interestingly, I had to ask her not to contact me again. I've never heard it put so concisely.
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Ex-girlfriend crap. Get this...
Published (2009-11-08 13:28:00)
One thing that I think I am going to do for now, is try to lay off this website a little bit and go back to the source. I am sitting here, printing out NMMNG. I bought it from eBooks.com and have had to read it completely digitally through the new Adobe Digital Editions software. It's great software, and I think it is designed mostly for people with those little Kindle and Sony Reader things, which I do not have. But anyway... I need it...
user's latest post:
First post: I am surprised that...
Published (2009-11-08 14:47:00)
" Your fundamental problem is that your thinking is screwed up. You are reaching conclusions that are not true; you are attaching meaning to things that are meaningless, and you've lost, or severely weakened the ability to act." I TTOOOOOOTALLLLY AGREE!!!!!!
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Started 1 week ago (2009-11-02 18:46:00)
by Solitude
What do you want?
Say out loud "I want ....." to give yourself some clarity.
Have you discussed the affair with her? If everything came out onto the table, could you forgive her?
Do you want to stay married? It appears not. If you are really unwilling "to feel close to her" you are doing her and yourself a disservice by maintaining a fascade.
I don't know how old your kids are, but...
Started 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-10-24 02:55:00)
by reborn
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Originally Posted by FrOzhinS
Was it a good idea cutting her out of my life completely?
Yes
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-02 17:08:00)
by jhbremer
awesome, let us know how it goes!
Started 2 days ago (2009-11-08 02:24:00)
by steve73
Omar from the Wire.
He doesn't follow a career path that we should aspire to however he lives true to who he is.
Started 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2009-08-24 13:22:00)
by wonder
Breaking Free Activity #2
Why would it seem rational for a person to try to eliminate or hide certain things about himself and try to become something different unless there was a significant compelling reason for him to do so? Why do people try to change who they really are?
I cant think of a rational reason unless there was a significant compelling reason that will cause the person to ...
Started 1 day, 9 hours ago (2009-11-08 17:27:00)
by aronx
I'm going to assume you that instead of "What's my next move?" you mean "How do I get her to fuck me?"
First, sitting there like a dolt listening to her drone on about this and that is only going to stick you in the friends zone. Your next "move" is simple, tell her to meet you for dinner/drinks/coffee, then flirt with her, tease her, and lead her.
That's it in a nutshell. The details...
Started 2 days, 5 hours ago (2009-11-07 22:00:00)
by aronx
I like it, except you holding a grudge against the "cancerous bitch." You did the right thing and separated from an eventual toxic situation, no need to be angry at the girl who stole your date. I would've done the exact same thing except offered my date the choice to follow me or stay put. Feels good to be able to walk away doesn't it?
As for feeling lousy even though you're succeeding...
Started 2 days, 3 hours ago (2009-11-07 23:51:00)
by chevy1947
First: Welcome aboard, lots of us here have sat in your chair.
You are new but the guys know my wife had an affair to top it off I now
see my daughter doing it in her marriage.
Pick up a book surviving an affair by a husband and wife doctor team.
I will tell you a few things you might not want to hear:
I think if a wife went out with her GF's and had too many drinks and met up ...
Started 1 day, 12 hours ago (2009-11-08 14:46:00)
by kochi
im not sure I follow you all the way, kinda.
Started 2 days, 3 hours ago (2009-11-07 23:11:00)
by RufWarrior
Hello - I live in the United States and my parents are of Indian descent. I have taken many of Dr. Glover's class, read his book many times, and read many other books. I was in your exact situation at age 28 related to women. Today, I'm 34 and married and doing much better.
There's a lot of baggage and cultural programming you will have to reverse. Most nice guys resist. I hope will be ...
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Started 5 days ago (2009-11-05 03:00:00)
by goliath
Quote:
What do you think of all this?
I think you need to quit thinking about what we think.
Of course, I know you are using us as a sounding board for the questions you are asking yourself.
I think you over analyze everything...
I think you think too much what others think.. and maybe not even in a way to gain approval so much as not ...
Started 6 days, 16 hours ago (2009-11-03 10:26:00)
by decades
your story is classic, taken right out of the pages of NMMNG. NG doing most of the work, not feeling appreciated for it, and taking a lot of shit in the process, and being frustrated with Dear Wife. Why doesn't she appreciate you!!
It will continue as long as you allow it to continue. that is, as long as you accept the situation. this stuff is really really simple but hard for NGs to pull ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-02 18:46:00)
by Solitude
What do you want?
Say out loud "I want ....." to give yourself some clarity.
Have you discussed the affair with her? If everything came out onto the table, could you forgive her?
Do you want to stay married? It appears not. If you are really unwilling "to feel close to her" you are doing her and yourself a disservice by maintaining a fascade.
I don't know how old your kids are, but...
Started 3 weeks, 6 days ago (2009-10-13 23:57:00)
by Boricua
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lucretius
I'm getting somewhat frustrated with my situation and would be privy to some advice.
The situation is exactly this: in spite of actively pursuing women for the last two years (delved heavily into PUA stuff, recently took Glover's dating class, just bettering myself in general) I have failed to...
Started 4 days, 8 hours ago (2009-11-05 18:21:00)
by decades
I have a lot of doubt. What are the odds that her mistake would just happen
to contain stuff that was hurtful? I believe it was intentional. perhaps
there is an answer in realization.
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-10-31 22:57:00)
by checked
Hard to say without being there.....
But I wouldnt punch a woman if she was playing.... or even if she wasnt. But to punch her back would take her having a weapon.
Ive had women do that and think that they are not doing anything wrong. If my wife is around she will handle it and if she isnt then I simply avoid it as casually as possible. Only once have I had to say something to a ...
Started 3 weeks ago (2009-10-20 00:46:00)
by PleasingMyself
I really enjoyed reading your post. It seems you are starting to unravel
some of the BS and unproductive thought patterns NGs go through.
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-02 17:08:00)
by jhbremer
awesome, let us know how it goes!
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-10-31 17:36:00)
by delta-v
Yes, women like this do exist. There aren't many of them (at least in my experience), usually they just assume you know what they're thinking and don't express it. And when you don't take the lead, they drop off the face of the earth.
I dated one a couple of times back when my NG tendencies were the driving force in my life.
In fact, she gave me almost the identical line that your lady did,...
Started 3 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-06 09:22:00)
by decades
You know you can take assertiveness too far. there are times to be assertive and times not to me. A time to be assertive is in social situations, or if you have been wronged somehow.
But it seems to me that you have to pick your battles better. She's the mom and it's her decision. I think it would have been best to play it off by saying "hey I gave it the ole college try, anyway, I am going ...
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