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Exercises... 1 - One counselor, one guy and one guy's group. 2 - I don't trust myself. I am afraid to be aggressive / in conflict, but it's getting easier now. 3 - Did it with my counselor. 4 - These are ways I seek approval: facial hair, appropriate clothing, actually working hard and appearing to work hard, staying sober in front of the children, (almost) never swearing, ...

Several guys have recommended the book When I Say No I Feel Guilty by Manuel Smith. Here's a brief review of my first reading of it. The title is somewhat misleading because that's not really the main point of the book. It's actually really helpful for NGs because it shows the very common ways that others attempt to manipulate you (and how we let ourselves be manipulated and controlled!)....

Ok. this is so weird! i never would have thought that i would understand it and i never would have thought i would post it at 3AM. for years and years i have been experiencing a weirdphenomenon when i sleep (especially uncomfortale sleeps). i would wake up in bed (while still dreaming) and i would find myself stuck in bed. cant move. i try very hard without a result until i make ahuge effort...

Pissed off at family and myself. So I need three classes (I think, I still need to consult with my counselor) to graduate. I plan to take them next semester. One of those classes was offered during the summer. But I couldn't take it because my parents needed me to help my sister (who I absolutely do not like to begin with), move out of her apartment during the summer. She had ...

I would like to ask a question of the group and get your feedback on something... I seem to have a hard time with big transitions (job loss or gain/ primary relationships ect...). My anxiety reaches a level and I just want immediate relief. Once I am over the transition I am just fine. In fact, I thrive... My question: How do you handle transition? What methods work best for you? ...

Hi, my girlfriend said it was ok to put her image on the internet though I didn't specifically ask her if I could put her picture on these forums. I hope it's ok with you all. I've read a little stuff on the internet about cortisol, stress and belly fat. I've also read that you can't just target fat by doing exercises like sit-ups/crunches. I'm wondering why this girl doesn't have big ...

I don't know where to start. Tonight was especially bad. I got into a huge fight with my wife. I tried to be firm, but she wouldn't listen. She said something about me being too inconsistent and her not respecting me. I should have backed off, but I tried to hang on to what little power I had left. I got upset and in her face and things spiraled out of control. I guess it's my fault for ...

Just moved to LA. Trying to see if there is a NMMNG support group out here in LA. Let me know if you know of one out here. Thanks!

Based on my real life experiences and this messageboard, it is very important to find a woman you can trust that is good relationship material. How do I find and keep one?

so I got back from my camping trip from Yosemite, and the first person to come visit me when I get back is my best friend. It's been a while, so I update him on the trip. He sees a spark in me, rejuvenated, and happy, and bouncy, something he hasn't seen in a long time. So we sat down and caught up. I told him about dumping that one psycho chick before I left for vacation, and he asked me a...

I feel so ashamed and pathetic. My wife has denied me sexual relations for over a decade. She had a hysterectomy several years ago, but she has been denying me sex long before that point. She really is not interested in sex, and in fact, doesn't even want to discuss the subject. It has been 14 years since this started. Is my marriage a fraud? I really don't want to give up on my marriage. ...

Ok. Fuck it. Am challenging my brains here. Am gonna do the exercises even if my other voice is challenging me: Activity 1: - The OSG - My parents (weird but they won't say no) - A close friend of mine who is passing through the same phase Activity2: People try to hide what they really want cause of the environment around them. If someone is raised to live while paying ...

I really just wanted to say thanks. I will continue to work on myself and to build a life for myself and I think that is great advice. I am still unsure if this will get me a woman or not since I have not seen major changes with women yet.

Hello everybody... I'm a recovering nice guy, not sure how much recovered, but we'll see. I read the book two years ago while getting over a relationship I had just ended. That was the only relationship I've ever had, and I'm still pretty bitter about it because she basically just used me. And she was the aggressor at the beginning of the relationship, so I haven't had much experience in ...